7 Zowerenga Zachikondi zamwambo wa LGBTQ+

Timakonda mawerengedwe awa oganiza bwino, osuntha komanso achikondi pamwambo waukwati wa LGBTQ+.

ndi Brittny Drye

Kuwerenga kungapangitse umunthu ndi chikondi kukhala pamwambo, koma, ndithudi, kungakhale kovuta kupeza olemba ndakatulo mosasamala za amuna kapena akazi. Tidawerenganso ndakatulo zathu zomwe timakonda, mabuku a ana komanso zigamulo za khothi, zomwe zimakondwerera chikondi, kulemekeza gulu la LGBTQ+ ndikuwonetsa mabanja osiyanasiyana.

1. Pa June 26, 2015, Woweruza wa Khoti Lalikulu ku United States, Anthony Kennedy, anawerenga maganizo a anthu ambiri amene anasintha miyoyo ya anthu mamiliyoni ambiri a ku America. kufanana kwaukwati dziko lonse. Osati kokha mbiri yolamulira iyi, inali yandakatulo yeniyeni.

“Palibe mgwirizano umene uli wozama kwambiri kuposa ukwati, chifukwa umakhala ndi zolinga zapamwamba kwambiri za chikondi, kukhulupirika, kudzipereka, kudzipereka, ndi banja. Popanga mgwirizano waukwati, anthu awiri amakhala chinthu chachikulu kuposa kale. Monga momwe ena mwa opempha m’nkhani zimenezi akusonyezera, ukwati umakhala ndi chikondi chimene chingapirire ngakhale imfa yapita. Kungakhale kusamvetsetsa amuna ndi akazi ameneŵa kunena kuti salemekeza lingaliro la ukwati. Kuchonderera kwawo n’kwakuti azichilemekeza, kuchilemekeza kwambiri kotero kuti amafuna kudzipezera okha kukwaniritsidwa kwake. Chiyembekezo chawo sichidzaweruzidwa kukhala osungulumwa, osaphatikizidwa m'gulu lakale kwambiri lachitukuko. Amapempha ulemu wofanana pamaso pa malamulo. Constitution imawapatsa ufulu umenewo.”

-Justice Anthony Kennedy, Hodges v. Obergefell

2. Zolingaliridwa kukhala zogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zolemba za Walt Whitman zidalembedwa kuti ndizolimbikitsa nthawi yawo. Koma nyimbo yomaliza ya "Nyimbo Yotseguka" imadzutsa chisangalalo chodabwitsa - ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chili chosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa kale?

"Camerado, ndikupatsani dzanja langa!

Ndikupatsa chikondi changa chamtengo wapatali kuposa ndalama!

Ine ndikupatsani inu ndekha ndisanalalikire kapena lamulo;

Kodi mungandipatse nokha? Kodi mungayende nane?

Kodi tidzamamatirana utali wa moyo wathu?

-Walt Whitman, ".Nyimbo ya Open Road

3. Ntchito ya Mary Oliver imaphatikiza chikondi, chilengedwe ndi zikondwerero, ndipo adalimbikitsidwa kwambiri poyendayenda kunyumba kwawo ku Provincetown, Massachusetts, komwe adagawana ndi mnzake, Molly Cook, kwa zaka 40 mpaka imfa ya Cook mu 2005.

“Tikamayendetsa mumdima,

Pamsewu wautali wopita ku Provincetown,

pamene tatopa,

nyumba ndi mitengo yapaini ikataya mawonekedwe awo odziwika bwino,

Ndikuganiza tikukwera kuchokera mgalimoto yothamanga.

Ndikuganiza tikuwona chilichonse kuchokera kwina—

pamwamba pa imodzi mwa milu yotuwa, kapena yakuya ndi yopanda dzina

minda ya m'nyanja.

Ndipo zomwe tikuwona ndi dziko lomwe silingatisamalire,

koma zomwe timakonda.

Ndipo zomwe tikuwona ndi moyo wathu ukuyenda choncho

m'mphepete mwa mdima wa chilichonse,

nyali zakutsogolo zikusesa mdima,

kukhulupirira zinthu zikwi zosalimba ndi zosatsimikizirika.

Kuyang'ana chisoni,

kuchepa kwa chimwemwe,

kuchita matembenuzidwe onse oyenera

mpaka kukafika kunyanja zotchinga,

mafunde ozungulira,

misewu yopapatiza, nyumba,

zam'mbuyo, zam'tsogolo,

khomo lomwe liyenera

kwa iwe ndi ine.”

-Mary Oliver,"Kubwerera Kunyumba”

4. Chigamulo cha SCOTUS chisanaperekedwe mu 2015, chigamulo cha Khothi Lalikulu la Massachusetts chomwe chinapangitsa boma kukhala loyamba kuvomereza mwalamulo maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndilo kuwerenga kotchuka kwambiri panthawiyi. ukwati wa gay miyambo. Imakhalabe pamwamba pa mndandanda wowerengera, makamaka kwa maanja omwe amakonda kuwonetsa mbiri ya kufanana pamwambo wawo.

“Ukwati n’chofunika kwambiri. Kudzipereka kwapadera kwa anthu awiri kwa wina ndi mzake kumalimbikitsa chikondi ndi kuthandizana; zimabweretsa bata m'dera lathu. Kwa amene amasankha kukwatira, ndi kwa ana awo, ukwati umapereka mapindu ochuluka alamulo, achuma, ndi mayanjano. Kubwezera kumabweretsa udindo waukulu walamulo, zachuma, ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu….Mosakayikira, ukwati wapachiweniweni umathandizira 'ubwino wa anthu ammudzi.' Ndi 'malo ochezera a anthu ofunikira kwambiri…

Ukwati umaperekanso mapindu ochuluka kwa iwo eni ndi a mayanjano kwa awo osankha kukwatira. Ukwati wapachiweniweni nthawi yomweyo ndi kudzipereka kwaumwini kwa munthu wina komanso chikondwerero chapoyera cha malingaliro a mgwirizano, ubwenzi, ubwenzi, kukhulupirika, ndi banja…. Chifukwa chakuti umakwaniritsa zikhumbo za chisungiko, malo osungika, ndi kugwirizana zimene zimasonyeza umunthu wathu wofanana, ukwati wa m’chikwati uli chikhazikitso cholemekezeka, ndipo chosankha chokwatira kapena kukwatiwa ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri za moyo.”

-Woweruza Margaret Marshall, Goodridge v. Department of Public Health

5. Zatengedwa m'buku lodziwika bwino la YA Galamukani Wakutchire, kagawo kameneka kakhoza kutanthauziridwa ngati chikondwerero cha kudziwika kwa anthu, ndi ulendo wokhala nokha, ziribe kanthu komwe kungakhale pazithunzithunzi za jenda, ndikupeza munthu wapadera amene amakukondani chifukwa chokhala inu.

“Anthu ali ngati mizinda: Tonsefe tili ndi tinjira ndi minda yamaluwa ndi madenga obisika ndi malo kumene milatho imamera pakati pa ming’alu ya m’mphepete mwa msewu, koma nthaŵi zambiri chimene timalolana kuwona ndi positikhadi chithunzithunzi cham’mwamba kapena bwalo lopukutidwa. Chikondi chimakupatsani mwayi wopeza malo obisika mwa munthu wina, ngakhale omwe samawadziwa, ngakhale omwe sakanaganiza kuwatcha okongola.

—Hilary T. Smith, Galamukani Wakutchire

6. Kuwerenga uku kuchokera m'buku la ana Kalulu wa Velveteen ndiwodziwika kwambiri pakati pa maanja a LGBTQ, chifukwa cha kusagwirizana kwa amuna kapena akazi. Timakonda lingaliro la mwana akuwerenga izi, kuti akhudzenso "awww."

"REAL ndi chiyani?" anafunsa Kalulu tsiku lina atagona mbali ndi mbali pafupi ndi nazale, Nanna asanabwere kudzakonza chipindacho. "Kodi zikutanthawuza kukhala ndi zinthu zomwe zimamveka mkati mwako ndi chogwirira chotuluka?"

“Zoona si mmene unapangidwira,” anatero Horse Wakukhungu. “Ndi chinthu chimene chimakuchitikirani. Mwana akamakukondani kwa nthawi yaitali, osati kungosewera naye, koma amakukondanidi, ndiye kuti mumakhala weniweni.”

"Zikupweteka?" anafunsa Kalulu.

“Nthaŵi zina,” anatero Horse Wachikopa, chifukwa chakuti nthaŵi zonse ankanena zoona. "Mukakhala Weniweni, simusamala kuvulazidwa."

"Kodi zimachitika nthawi imodzi, monga kukomoka," adafunsa, "kapena pang'onopang'ono?"

“Sizichitika nthawi imodzi,” anatero Horse Wakhungu. “Iwe umakhala. Zimatenga nthawi yayitali. Ndicho chifukwa chake sizichitika kawirikawiri kwa anthu omwe amathyoka mosavuta, kapena omwe ali ndi mbali zakuthwa, kapena omwe ayenera kusungidwa mosamala. Nthawi zambiri, pofika nthawi yomwe muli Weniweni, tsitsi lanu lalitali lakhala likukondedwa, ndipo maso anu amatuluka ndipo mumamasuka m'malo olumikizirana mafupa anu komanso onyowa kwambiri. Koma zinthu zimenezi zilibe ntchito ngakhale pang’ono, chifukwa ukakhala Weniweni sungakhale wonyansa, kupatulapo kwa anthu amene samvetsa.”

—Margery Williams, Kalulu wa Velveteen

7. Pali zolemba zingapo ndi ndakatulo zomwe titha kukopera kuchokera kwa wolemba ndakatulo wodziwika bwino komanso womenyera ufulu wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha Maya Angelou omwe angamve kukhala kunyumba pamwambo, koma mitu ya kulimba mtima ndi chikondi mu prose yake "Touched by an Angel" ndi yokongola, komanso. mwachiwonekere, kusankha kwa LGBTQ maanja. 

"Ife, osazolowera kulimba mtima

othamangitsidwa kuchokera ku chisangalalo

moyo wodziphatika m'zigoba za kusungulumwa

mpaka chikondi chichoke m'kachisi wake wopatulika

ndipo amabwera pamaso pathu

kutimasula ku moyo.

Chikondi chimafika

ndipo m’sitima mwake mumabwera zokondweretsa

kukumbukira zakale zosangalatsa

mbiri yakale ya ululu.

Koma ngati tili olimba mtima,

chikondi chimachotsa unyolo wa mantha

kuchokera ku miyoyo yathu.

Tachotsedwa kuyamwa ku mantha athu

M'kuwala kwa chikondi

Tiyerekeze kukhala olimba mtima

Ndipo mwadzidzidzi tikuwona

chikondi chimenecho chimawononga zonse zomwe tili

ndipo zidzakhala nthawizonse.

Komabe ndi chikondi chokha

zomwe zimatimasula.”

—Maya Angelou, “Touched by an Angel”

Brittny Drye ndiye woyambitsa komanso mkonzi wamkulu wa Chikondi Inc., bulogu yaukwati yofanana yomwe imakondwerera chikondi chowongoka komanso cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, mofanana.