MALAMULO A UKWATI WA KOYENERA MUKUFUNA KUDZIWA
Mosasamala kanthu kuti mukukwatirana pafupi ndi kwanu kapena ayi, kumvetsetsa miyambo yaukwati kungakhale chinthu chovuta. Ndani amalipira chiyani? Kodi muyenera kuyitanitsa alendo angati? Mafunso okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe nthawi zina amakhala osatha, ndipo mukawonjezera malo akutali ndi miyambo ndi miyambo yosiyanasiyana, malamulo amatha kusintha. Koma chikhalidwe chaukwati chopitako sichiyenera kukhala chosokoneza - zonse zomwe zimafunika ndikufufuza pang'ono ndikukonzekera musananyamuke tsiku lalikulu.
Dziwani kuti ndani amalipira chiyani
“Choyamba, okwatirana ayenera kukumbukira alendo awo pa nkhani ya ndalama. Pokhapokha ngati alendo awo onse ali olemera (zomwe sizikhala choncho), simukufuna kusankha a malo Umenewu ndi wokwera mtengo kufikako ndiponso wokwera mtengo kukhalamo,” anatero Jamie Chang, ukwati wopitako wokonza mapulani ndi wopanga ku Los Altos. “Si ulemu waukwati wopita ku ukwati kupempha alendo kuti apereke ndalama zokwana madola masauzande ambiri kuti abwere ku ukwati wawo.”
Mndandanda wa alendo ukhale waufupi
Palibe malamulo okhwima komanso othamanga omwe amapita ku ukwati akafika popanga mndandanda wa alendo. Koma maukwati ambiri komwe akupita, ndi bwino kuganiza zazing'ono. Itanani anthu omwe mumawakonda ndikuwafuna m'moyo wanu. Chang akulingalira kufunsa funso ili: “Ngati ukwati wanu unachitika dzulo ndipo simunamuitane munthu ameneyu, kodi mungakhale achisoni? Mndandanda wanu wa alendo uyenera kukhala ndi anthu omwe yankho la funsoli ndi 'inde,' ”akutero Chang.
Perekani alendo nthawi yokwanira yokonzekera
Tumizani makadi anu osungira tsiku pafupi miyezi isanu ndi itatu mpaka 10 ukwati usanachitike, ndipo tumizani maitanidwe osachepera miyezi itatu pasadakhale, kupatsa alendo nthawi yochuluka ya RSVP.
Pangani alendo anu kumva olandiridwa
Landirani alendo anu poyambira. Mwina kupanga phwando pa tsiku lofika. zikwama zolandilidwa zodzaza ndi zodzitetezera kudzuwa, zopindika kapena zofunikira zina zanyengo yotentha ndizokhudzanso bwino. "Apangitseni kuti asangalale," akutero Sabrina Cadini, woyambitsa komanso director of the San Diego-based La Dolce Idea, kampani yomwe imapereka ntchito zokonzekera ukwati. Apatseni malangizo achindunji okhudza ulendo, nyengo, malingaliro a zovala, ndi kuwadziwitsa ndi kulumikizana Loweruka ndi Lamlungu laukwati.
Ngati mukufuna nokha nthawi pambuyo mwambo
"Palibe njira yotchulira izi," akutero Chang. "Njira yabwino yodziwira mfundoyi ndikungopanga chotchinga chakuthupi." Ngati mukufuna kukhala limodzi ngati banja pambuyo pa phwando, Chang amalimbikitsa kukhala kwinakwake kwachinsinsi. Khalani m'chipinda chanu cha hotelo. Ikani chizindikiro cha "musasokoneze". Sungani chipinda chaukwati mu hotelo yosiyana. Alendo anu adzalandira uthengawo.
Phunzirani miyambo ndi zikhalidwe za kumaloko
Cadini anati: “Musamaphatikizepo miyambo kapena zinthu zina zimene zingakhumudwitse chikhalidwe cha dziko limene munakwatira.
Mwachitsanzo, kukongoletsa kwanu Ogulitsa m'mayiko ena akhoza kukhala okhumudwitsa. Mnzake wa Cadini anakwatiwa ndi mwamuna wina wa ku Japan kudziko lakwawo, ndipo anaitana anzake a ku America ku ukwatiwo. “Panthaŵi yaphwando laukwati, oitanidwawo ananyengerera ogulitsirawo monga chizindikiro choyamikira ntchito imene anaichita bwino. Zinapezeka kuti kuwongolera ku Japan kumawonedwa ngati chipongwe. Alendo ake mwachiwonekere samadziwa, koma ogulawo adakhumudwa ndikudandaula ndi mkulu wa phwandolo yemwe nayenso anapita kukadandaula ndi mkwatibwi ndi mkwatibwi,” adatero Cadini.
Pofuna kupewa kusamvana kulikonse komanso kukhalabe ndi makhalidwe abwino aukwati wa komwe mukupita, Cadini akulangiza kuti mufunse wokonzekera ukwati wapafupi za miyambo kapena miyambo ya malo anu. Ngati muwona kuti kuwongolera kumawoneka ngati kwamwano, perekani chidziwitsocho kwa alendo anu.
Apatseni alendo anu zambiri zofunika
Pali zinthu zambiri komanso zambiri zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndikupita ku ukwati komwe mukupita, choncho onetsetsani kuti mwapatsa alendo anu zambiri pasadakhale momwe mungathere. Anu webusaiti yaukwati ndi malo abwino oti mugawireko zinthu zonse zofunika—kuyambira kumapeto kwa sabata mpaka zokhudza zamayendedwe, zidziwitso zamwadzidzidzi, ndi zina zambiri.
Perekani mwayi wosakanikirana
Ngati mmodzi wa alendo anu sadziwa ena paukwati, ganizirani kumulola kuti abweretse chowonjezera. Popeza maukwati ambiri akumaloko amatha kukhala sabata yathunthu, perekani mwayi kwa alendo anu kuti azikhala ndi phwando lolandiridwa ndi zochitika zina zokonzedwa, monga kukaona malo, masewera, maulendo apanyanja, kapena maulendo ena.
"Mumafuna kuonetsetsa kuti aliyense ali ndi nthawi yabwino komanso kuti ali ndi wina wocheza naye," akutero Chang.
Kwa Alendo
Osaitana ena popanda chilolezo
Sizikhalidwe zaukwati kopita kubwere ndi bwenzi ngati simunaitanidwe ndi chowonjezera chimodzi. Ngati mudzakhala mukuwuluka nokha paukwati, muyenera kuvomereza kuti mudzakhala nokha nthawi yonseyi. Sibwino kuti muitane mnzanu kapena wina wofunika kwambiri inuyo—kuwonjezera ndalama zonse za banjali.
Osaona kufunika kowononga kwambiri mphatso
Popeza mwina munawononga ndalama zambiri zosintha mukafika kuukwati, mutha kugula mphatso yamtengo wapatali kwa banjali. Koma zili ndi inu kwathunthu. Pitani pamwamba pa registry kapena pitani pansi. Popeza kunyamula mphatso m’ndege kungakhale kowawa, perekani mphatso yanu kwa okwatiranawo ukwati usanachitike.
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