MUSAPINDIKIZWE NTCHITO: MMENE MUNGACHEPE KUPANDA KUPANDA KUPANDA
Tikudziwa kuti nthawi yokonzekera imakhala yovuta bwanji tsiku loyamba la banja lanu lisanafike ndipo musade nkhawa kuti tikudziwa momwe tingathandizire. M'nkhaniyi mupeza malangizo amomwe mungachepetsere nkhawa zanu zokonzekera ukwati.
1. Khalani Okonzekera
Kukonzekera kwa aliyense ndi kosiyana, kotero ndikofunikira kupeza zomwe zimakuthandizani. Mutha kugwiritsa ntchito zida zaukwati za Equally Wed's LGBTQ+, mndandanda wazomwe mungachite, spreadsheet, Google Calendar, chikwatu cha accordion, kapena kugula zokonzekera ukwati.
Chilichonse chomwe mungaganize, kutsata zomwe muyenera kuchita ndi tsiku liti kungakhale kochepetsera nkhawa kwambiri. Zitha kukhala zothandiza kuziwona zonse zalembedwa kuti ntchito zisakuzungulirani tsiku lonse. Kupatula apo, palibe chinthu chokhutiritsa kuposa kuwoloka china chake pamndandandawo.
2. Pemphani Thandizo
Inu ndi mnzanuyo simukuyenera kuchita izi nokha. Ngati zonse zikumva ngati zachulukira, fikirani abwenzi, abale komanso Ogulitsa kuti muwone yemwe angagawane nawo ena mwazovuta zokonzekera.
Ngati zili mu bajeti, ganiziraninso kulemba wokonza ukwati kapena wotsogolera tsiku. Iwo akhoza kukhala wamkulu masewera kusintha.
3. Lembani Ogulitsa Ophatikiza
Onetsetsani kuti mavenda omwe mumasankha kugwira nawo ntchito ndi LGBTQ+-kuphatikizapo. (Sakani mavenda aukwati a LGBTQ+ pafupi nanu.) Moyenera, akuyeneranso kukhala ndi chidziwitso chogwira ntchito ndi maanja a LGBTQ+. Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kungokhala wofunitsitsa kugwira ntchito ndi inu ndi kukhala wokondwa, wophunzira ndi wodziwa zambiri. Kuwona ogulitsa kuyambira pachiyambi kudzatsimikizira kuti simudzakumana ndi umbuli kapena kusalemekeza nthawi iliyonse paulendo wanu wokonzekera ukwati.
4. Khalani Ololera
Inu ndi mnzanuyo simungagwirizane pa chilichonse chokhudza ukwatiwo. Ndikofunika kukhala wokonzeka kupotoza masomphenya anu kuti mugwirizane ndi awo.
Zowonadi, pali mbali zina zaukwati zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa inu. Lembani mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika kwambiri ndipo muuzeni mnzanuyo kuti achite chimodzimodzi. Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kukhala ndi lingaliro la madera omwe kungakhale kofunika kwambiri kupereka zomwe mnzanu akufuna, ndipo angachite chimodzimodzi kwa inu.
5. Khalani ndi Nthawi Yosakonzekera Ndi Wokondedwa Wanu
Zingakhale zosavuta kuti mutengeke kwambiri mukukonzekera ukwati kuti mumayiwala chifukwa chonse chomwe mukukwatirana poyamba malo: Umakonda kucheza ndi bwenzi lako. Yesetsani kupatula nthawi sabata iliyonse yomwe mumakhala limodzi osalankhula za ukwati. Zimenezi zidzakukumbutsani chifukwa chake mukuchitira zimenezi poyamba ndipo zidzakuthandizani kuona kuti chofunika kwambiri pamapeto pake n’chakuti nonsenu mudzakwatirana.
Siyani Mumakonda