MMENE MUNGATHANDIZENI LGBTQ COMUNITY PAMWAMBO WANGA WA UKWATI

Tsiku laukwati wanu likubwera, tikudziwa kuti mwakonzeka koma nthawi zonse zimakhala malo kuti zikhale bwino. Ngati kwa oyu ndikofunikira kuwonetsa gawo lanu pakunyada ndipo mukufuna kuthandiza anthu ammudzi pamwambo waukwati wanu, apa tili ndi malangizo abwino kwa inu.

Khalani ogwirizana ndi mawu anu

Ngakhale kuti zinthu zakhala zikuyenda bwino kwa zaka zambiri pamene iye ndi mwamuna wake tsopano ankasungiramo chipinda cha hotelo, mafunso angapo angatsatire: "Zipinda ziwiri?" "Bedi limodzi kapena awiri?" Ndi zina zotero. Koma sikunali kufunsa komwe kukanamuvutitsa iye; chinali mawonekedwe a nkhope ndi thupi. Iye anati: “Pamacheza onsewa, nsidze yomwe inkakwezeka ndi imene inkandikwiyitsa kwambiri.

Pamene maanja amatumiza maitanidwe aukwati, musamaganize ndi mawu, monga 'Mr. & Mai.' kapena 'Mwamuna ndi mkazi.' M'malo mwake, funsani alendo maulemu ndi matchulidwe awo pasadakhale. Ngati mungasungitse malo ogulitsira kuhotelo tsiku lanu lalikulu, fufuzani kawiri ndi manejala kuti anthu onse amitundu yonse ndi odziwika kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi ndi olandiridwa ndipo azikhala omasuka. Simukufuna kuti okondedwa anu ayambe sabata yaukwati pamutu wolakwika - makamaka womwe ungakhale wopweteka kwambiri.

Khalani wokonzeka kufunsa funso

Mukamasankha anthu amene adzaonere pamene banja lanu likuyamba, n’kutheka kuti mumawadziwa bwino. Koma pamene mukudutsa ndondomeko yokonzekera ukwati, mudzapeza Ogulitsa simunakumanepo kapena kuyanjana nawo m'mbuyomu. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mutha kugwiritsa ntchito mawu olakwika kapena kunena mawu osalemekeza mosadziwa. Izi zitha kukhalanso chimodzimodzi ndi mwana kapena kuphatikiza-m'modzi wa bwenzi kapena wachibale yemwe amadziwika kuti ndi transgender. Kapena, mwina, akanangotuluka kumene ngati gay kapena bisexual. Panthawi yovutayi, amafunikira chikondi chowonjezera, ndipo ngati simukudziwa momwe mungayankhulire ndi aliyense wa anthuwa.

“Palibe amene amamvetsa nthawi yoyamba. Kodi ife monga gulu tingaphunzire bwanji momwe wina aliyense angafune kuti tilankhule nawo ngati sitifunsa?" Akutero. "Monga chochitika wokonza mapulani, ambiri mwa mabanja anga amachokera ku zikhalidwe zosiyanasiyana ndipo amakhudza misinkhu yonse, amuna kapena akazi, mafuko, ndi zipembedzo. Ndimapeza nthawi yofunsa momwe banjali likumverera bwino potengera magulu onse omwe ali pamwambawa, ndipo ngati pabwera nthawi yomwe sindikutsimikiza, ndifunse. ”

Ingogwirani ntchito ndi ogulitsa omwe akuphatikiza ndi al

Ukwati ndi ndalama zokwera mtengo, ndipo kwa maanja ambiri kapena mabanja, chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe angagule. Chifukwa chake ngati muli ndi ndalama zoti mugwiritse ntchito, bwanji osatsimikiza kuti zikupita a wogulitsa kapena malo omwe akuphatikiza? Ndikuwonetsa mwachangu thandizo lawo ndi mgwirizano ndi gulu la LGBTQIA+? Ngakhale kuti ndalama si njira yokhayo yobweretsera mavuto, kusankha makampani omwe sasankhana ndi njira yoyenera yopezera kufanana kwa maanja onse ndi mitundu yonse ya chikondi.

Lakwirani kumbali ya kukoma mtima

Zingawoneke ngati zopanda pake, koma kukoma mtima kumapita kutali. Ndipo kukumbukira kuti zidziwitso zakugonana ndi jenda sizinthu zokha za moyo wathu zomwe zimatifotokozera. “Kaya munakulira chotani, padzakhala zochitika zina zomwe tonsefe timagawana. Gwiritsani ntchito zomwe zachitikazo kuti mukhale nawo pazokambirana zanu," akutero.

Izi zikutanthauza kusachitapo kanthu chifukwa mwamuna watchula mwamuna wake kapena mkazi watchula mkazi wake. Izi zonse ndi maubale, monga ena onse. Muzokonzekera zaukwati wanu - ndi zochitika za tsiku ndi tsiku - khalani patsogolo kuvomereza ndi kulolerana nthawi zonse.