MMENE MUNGAGWIRIRE NTCHITO 2 AMAYI PAUKWATI WANU WA LESBIAN
Ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi amayi awiri okondwa, omwe ali pachibwenzi akukuthandizani ndi bwenzi lanu ngati inu chikonzero ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zikomo! Koma, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kukonzekera ukwati ndi chithandizo chamaganizo ndi chandalama cha makolo, zingakhale zovuta ngati pali amayi awiri a mkwatibwi. Mwamwambo, a MOB ndi mayi wachiwiri wofunika kwambiri pa nthawi yaukwati, ali ndi miyambo yake komanso nthawi yowonekera paukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kwa maanja akale omwe ali ndi akwatibwi awiri, zitha kukhala zovuta kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti awonetsetse kuti onse a MOB amasangalala komanso ofunikira panthawi yokonzekera ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso pa tsiku lalikulu.
Pezani aliyense patsamba lomwelo
Izi ndizofunikira kwa aliyense amene adzakhale nawo pakukonzekera ukwati, makamaka kwa iwo omwe angakhale akupereka ndalama. Kwa amayi a akwatibwi makamaka, mufuna kutsimikiza kuti ali omasuka kulankhulana wina ndi mzake komanso kuti aliyense akudziwa zomwe awiriwa akuyembekezera kuchokera ku MOBs (ndi mosemphanitsa). Ngati makolo anu sanakumanepo ndi apongozi anu amtsogolo, gwiritsani ntchito izi ngati mwayi wokhala ndi anzanu, nkhomaliro kapena chakudya chamadzulo, kuti pasakhale zovuta zochulukirapo pamsonkhano woyamba. Komanso, tengani nthawi iyi kuti mukambirane za anthu omwe ali m'chipindamo ndi momwe angagwirizanitse ndi kukonzekera ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Mwachitsanzo, MOB yachisangalalo, yochita nthabwala ingakhale yomasuka ndi ntchito monga kulankhula pa chakudya chamadzulo ndi ukwati pamene MOB yolimbikira, yamanyazi ingafune kuti chopereka chake chisawonekere kapena kukhala wapamtima.
Gwirani ntchito zachikhalidwe za MOB
Madera ena okonzekera ukwati amagwera pansi pa "ntchito za amayi," ndiye chimachitika ndi chiyani pakakhala amayi awiri ndi akwatibwi awiri? Apa ndi pamene ziyembekezo zomveka bwino zitha kukhazikitsidwa za yemwe achite chiyani. Ngati mukukonzekera kukhala ndi kusamba kwaukwati kumodzi, onetsetsani kuti amayi akudziwa ngati mmodzi kapena onse awiri adzakhala pa ntchito yokonzekera, pamodzi ndi MOHs. Ntchito zina, monga kuthandiza akwati kusankha zovala zaukwati, zimakhala zosavuta kuzifotokoza chifukwa amayi anu adzakuthandizani ndipo amayi a bwenzi lanu amamuthandiza.
Kuphatikiza apo, banja la mkwati likuyembekezeka kuchititsa mwambowu m'maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, choncho kambiranani ndi amayi onse mwachangu kuti musankhe ngati pali gigi. Izi zitha kukhala njira yabwino yowonetsetsa kuti amayi onse ali ndi chochitika chisanachitike ukwati chomwe angakhale nacho.
Amayi onse aziwasamalira mofanana
Amayi ambiri amalota za ukwati wa mwana wawo wamkazi kuyambira pomwe amabadwa, ndipo amayembekeza momwe tsikulo lidzakhalire. Kukhala ndi amayi awiri omwe ali ndi ziyembekezo zazikuluzi zitha kukhala njira yopangira sewero, koma pewani kupusa komwe kungachitike pomvera amayi anu komanso tsogolo lanu la MIL. Samalani kuti mugawane zinthu mofanana, mwachitsanzo, ngati amayi anu aitana abwenzi ake 10, ndiye kuti MIL yanu iyeneranso kuitana anzake khumi.
Komanso dziwani mmene amayi amamvera akapatsidwa ulemu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati bwenzi lanu lasankha kuvala chophimba cha amayi ake ndi diresi lake laukwati, amayi anu angayambe kuchita nsanje ngati inunso simunavale chinachake chake. Mwina chophimba si kalembedwe kanu, koma mufunseni iye mphete, wotchi, mpango kapena china chake chomwe chili ndi tanthauzo lomwe mungafune kuphatikiza muzovala zanu zaukwati. Kupitilira pazovala, mwina mungakonzekere kunyamula buku lake lapemphero pansi panjira, kapena kupanga maluwa kapena maluwa omwe amakonda. Izi zingawoneke ngati zing'onozing'ono, koma zimapita kutali kuti zitsimikizire kuti amayi anu akumva kuti akuphatikizidwa.
Gwirizanitsani zovala za MOB
Popeza inu ndi bwenzi lanu mwina mukufufuza zovala zaukwati padera, zingakhale zovuta kupeza awiri MOB madiresi kapena masuti omwe akufanana ndi phale laukwati, koma musasemphane ndi zosankha zanu. Ngati mukugwira ntchito ndi saluni yaukwati, dziwitsani stylist wanu kuti mukuyang'ananso zovala zoyenera za amayi anu. Ngati mukumva omasuka kulola tsogolo lanu la MIL kuti mudziwe zomwe mudzavala patsiku laukwati wanu, funsani ma MOB kuti asonkhane, aunikenso zovala zomwe nonse mudzavala ndikugwirizanitsa zovala zawo kuchokera pamenepo.
Apatseni onse mphindi yowala
Patsiku la ukwati wanu, amayi anu adzayembekezera kulemekezedwa mwanjira inayake. Mwamwambo, a MOB amaperekezedwa m’kanjira asanayambe ulendowo komanso amapatsidwa nthawi yoti alankhule (pamodzi ndi makolo ena) panthawi yolandira alendo. Ndi ma MOB awiri, onetsetsani kuti onse apatsidwa ulemu, kotero palibe amene amapeputsa. Mukhozanso kusankha mipando yawo pamwambowu ndi zizindikiro zokoma kapena kuwakongoletsa ndi maluwa omwe amawakonda. Anu wojambula zithunzi atha kuperekanso malingaliro apadera omwe mungajambule ndi amayi anu (ndi agogo anu!) kuti mukumbukire tsikuli kwa nonse. Pomaliza, musaletse kuvina kwa amayi ndi mwana wamkazi! Ngakhale mungakhale ofunitsitsa kutenga nawo mbali ndi abambo anu, akwatibwi ambiri akusankhanso kuchita chimodzimodzi ndi amayi awo.
Onetsani kuyamikira kwanu ku ma MOB onse awiri
Amayi ndi gawo lalikulu la gulu lanu lachibwenzi lokonzekera ukwati, choncho musaiwale kuthokoza amayi anu (atsopano ndi akale!) chifukwa cha thandizo lawo. Lembani cholembedwa choganizira kwa amayi onse kuti awerenge pa tsiku la ukwati wanu; yitanitsani maluwa awiri okongola kapena kuthokoza poyera pa phwando lanu. Mutha kupatsanso amayi anu ndi MIL wanu maluwa aukwati kumapeto kwa usiku ngati mphatso yokoma yotsatsira.
Siyani Mumakonda