Gulu Lanu la Ukwati la LGBTQ+

LGBTQ ndi mawu omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri m'deralo; mwina chifukwa ndiyosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito! Mutha kumvanso mawu akuti "Queer Community" kapena "Rainbow Community" omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pofotokoza anthu a LGBTQ2+. Izi zoyambira ndi mawu osiyanasiyana akusintha nthawi zonse kotero musayese kuloweza mndandandawo. Chofunika kwambiri ndi kukhala aulemu ndikugwiritsa ntchito mawu omwe anthu amakonda

Ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi amayi awiri okondwa, omwe ali pachibwenzi kukuthandizani ndi bwenzi lanu pamene mukukonzekera ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, zikomo! Koma, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina zimakhala bwino kukonzekera ukwati ndi chithandizo chamaganizo ndi chandalama cha makolo, zingakhale zovuta ngati pali amayi awiri a mkwatibwi. Mwamwambo, a MOB ndi mayi wachiwiri wofunika kwambiri pa nthawi yaukwati, ali ndi miyambo yake komanso nthawi yake yowonekera paukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kwa maanja omwe ali ndi akwatibwi awiri, zitha kukhala zovuta kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti awonetsetse kuti onse a MOB amasangalala komanso ofunikira panthawi yokonzekera ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso pa tsiku lalikulu.

Traditional ukwati malumbiro angakhale - tinganene bwanji - heteronormative? Kulemba malumbiro aukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kungakhale kovuta chifukwa mungafunike kusintha ma tempuleti osiyanasiyana kuti mupeze zitsanzo zomwe zimagwira ntchito paukwati wanu wa LGBT. Kumbali ina, ngati queer kapena trans couple, muli ndi ufulu wochuluka kupanga malumbiro a ukwati omwe amaimira umunthu wanu ndi ubale wanu popanda kudandaula za miyambo. Ndipotu, ambiri mwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amasankha kulemba okha malumbiro awo aukwati poyerekezera ndi pafupifupi munthu mmodzi pa atatu alionse amene amakwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.