Uluntu lwakho lwe-LGBTQ+ loMtshato

Ukuba unethamsanqa lokuba noomama ababini abonwabileyo, abathembisene ngomtshato abakuxhasayo kunye neqabane lakho njengoko uceba umtshato wabasetyhini abathandana nabanye, halala! Kodwa, nangona ngamanye amaxesha kukhethwa ukucwangcisa umtshato kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo kunye nemali yabazali, kunokuba nzima xa kukho oomama ababini abatshakazi. Ngokwemveli, i-MOB linenekazi lesibini elibaluleke kakhulu kwiyure emtshatweni, kunye neseti yakhe yezithethe kunye nexesha elibonakalayo kumtshato wesini esahlukileyo. Kwizibini ezitshatileyo ezinoomolokazana ababini, inokuba ngumthambo onzima wokuqinisekisa ukuba zombini ii-MOBs ziziva zibhiyozelwa kwaye zibalulekile ngexesha lokucwangciswa komtshato wabasetyhini kunye nangosuku olukhulu.

Izibhambathiso zomtshato zesiNtu zinokuba-ngakuthiwa njani-i-heteronormative? Inkqubo yokubhala izibhambathiso zomtshato we-gay inokuba ngumngeni njengoko unokufuna ukuhlenga ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zetemplates ukufumana imizekelo ethile esebenzela umtshato wakho we-LGBT. Kwicala le-flip, njenge-queer okanye isibini esitshatileyo, unenkululeko eninzi yokwenza izifungo zomtshato ezimele ubuni bakho kunye nobudlelwane bakho ngaphandle kwetoni yokukhathazeka ngesiko. Enyanisweni, uninzi lwabantu besini esifanayo bakhetha ukubhala izifungo zabo zomtshato xa kuthelekiswa nesinye kwisithathu sabantu besini esahlukileyo.