MALAMULO ACHIKULU OLEMBA MALONJE ANU APADERA A UKWATI WA LGBTQ
Traditional ukwati malumbiro angakhale - tinganene bwanji - heteronormative? Kulemba malumbiro aukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha kungakhale kovuta chifukwa mungafunike kusintha ma tempuleti osiyanasiyana kuti mupeze zitsanzo zomwe zimagwira ntchito paukwati wanu wa LGBT. Kumbali ina, ngati queer kapena trans couple, muli ndi ufulu wochuluka kupanga malumbiro a ukwati omwe amaimira umunthu wanu ndi ubale wanu popanda kudandaula za miyambo. Ndipotu, ambiri mwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha amasankha kulemba okha malumbiro awo aukwati poyerekezera ndi pafupifupi munthu mmodzi pa atatu alionse amene amakwatirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
O AMA, NDI KONGOLA BWANJI: MALO A UKWATI WA LGBTQ ABWENZI
Kukonzekera mwambo waukwati wanu ndikuyesera zomwe mungathe kuti zonse zikhale zangwiro? Nkhaniyi ikhoza kukuthandizani kuti mupeze malo abwino aukwati ochezeka a LGBTQ paukwati wanu.
MAFUNSO OWAPATSA KWAMBIRI UKWATI WA LGBTQ: TIDZAYANKHA!
Ngati simunapiteko ku ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, tili ndi nkhani zina zomwe zingakhale zoipa: Sikuti ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi maukwati owongoka. Komabe, maukwati pakati pa anthu a LGBTQ akadali osowa, ndipo mwayi uli, mutha kukhala ndi mafunso oyaka moto pazomwe mungayembekezere kuchokera kwa woyamba wanu.
TIDZABWIRITSA NTCHITO: M'makampani obwereketsa komanso odalilika a LGBTQ
Tikudziwa kufunika kwa inu kukonzekera basi wangwiro ukwati mwambo. Osadandaula, tikudziwa momwe tingakuthandizireni. Makampani athu obwereketsa ochezeka a LGBTQ ali pano chifukwa cha inu!
ZOCHITIKA ZA UKWATI: PEZANI MALANGIZO ENA OFUNIKA
Ponena za maukwati a LGBTQ, thambo lokha ndilo malire a mafashoni. Izi ndi nkhani zabwino ndi zoipa. Pokhala ndi zosankha zambiri, zingakhale zovuta kusankha mosasamala kanthu kuti ndinu ndani, mumadziwa bwanji, kapena zomwe mumavala nthawi zambiri. Zovala ziwiri? Tuxes ziwiri? Suti imodzi ndi tux imodzi? Chovala chimodzi ndi suti imodzi? Kapena mwina kungopita wapamwamba wamba? Kapena kupeza misala matchane? Inu mumamva lingaliro.
IDZAPANGITSA KUKHALA KWAMBIRI: TIMU ZONSE ZA UKWATI WA LGBTQ
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa mwambo waukwati ndi chikondi, ndikukuuzani. Koma ngati mukufunadi kukhala ndi chikondwerero chokongola komanso chodabwitsa muyenera kuganizira zokongoletsa zina. Chabwino, chabwino, tikudziwa magulu ochezeka a LGBTQ omwe angakuthandizeni kukongoletsa mwambo wanu ndi chikondi ndi kalembedwe. Tiyeni tizipita!
ZINTHU ZONSE ZOFUNIKA KUDZIWA ZA LGBTQ DESTINATION UKWATI
Iyi ndiye malo anu oyimitsa onse omwe muyenera kudziwa za LGBTQ Destination Ukwati! Poyamba, pali mayiko 22 padziko lonse lapansi omwe amazindikira maukwati a amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Pali malo ambiri oti mupite kukamanga mfundo! Nawa mafunso omwe amafunsidwa pafupipafupi okhudza maukwati a LGBTQ.
MMENE ZINASINTHIRA MU ZAKA 8 ZOTSIRIZA: ZONSE ZOKONZEKERA UKWATI
Zaka zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazo, Khothi Lalikulu ku United States (SCOTUS) lidaganiza kuti ukwati wa Edie Windsor wokhala ku New York (anakwatirana ndi Thea Spier ku Canada mu 2007) uzindikiridwe ku New York, komwe ukwati wa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha udachitika. adadziwika mwalamulo kuyambira 2011. Chisankho chodziwika bwinochi chinatsegula mwayi kwa maanja ambiri omwe amagonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha omwe ankafuna kuvomereza mgwirizano walamulo koma sakanatha kutero m'mayiko awo, ndipo pamapeto pake adatsegula njira yopita ku chisankho cha SCOTUS 'Obergefell mu 2015, zomwe zimavomereza kufanana kwaukwati m'dziko lonselo. Kusintha kwalamulo kumeneku, ngakhale kukuchitika m'makhothi, pamapeto pake kudakhudza kwambiri msika waukwati komanso zisankho za maanja a LGBTQ.
OYIMBA ZOCHITIKA ZOPHUNZITSA ZA LGBTQ ABWENZI ZA UKWATI
Tikudziwa kufunikira kuti mukhale ndi mwambo waukwati wapadera kwambiri komanso wangwiro. Mumayesa kuganizira zonse, mawonekedwe, alendo komanso zomveka. Lero tikufuna kulankhula za zomveka komanso zamagulu omvera a nyimbo zaukwati a LGBTQ omwe mungakonde kuyitanira.
TIKUFUNA KUPEZA YANKHO LA FUNSO LA MAKHALIDWE!
Mukakonzekera ukwati wanu nthawi zonse mumakumana ndi matani a mafunso omwe mwina simunakumane nawo kale. Mafunso okhudza ukwati wanu ndi zomwe muyenera kuyankha ngati mukufuna kupumula ndikupewa zovuta pamwambowo. Osadandaula kuti nkhaniyi ikuthandizani kupeza mayankho ofunikira a mafunso anu onse.