U-CYNTHIA NIXON MAYELANA NOMSHADO WAKHE OPHELELE NOTHANDO CHRISTINE MARINONI
Cynthia Nixon uchitha izimfihlo ezithile ngalokho akuchaza njengosuku lwakhe oluhle lomshado.
Ngemuva kweminyaka emithathu sithembisene umshado, isihlabani se-"Sex and the City", 46, sashintshana ngezifungo nesishoshovu sezemfundo. UChristine Marinoni eNew York City ngoMeyi. Umcimbi ubukhethekile kakhulu kwabashadikazi - abanendodana okuthiwa uMax - ngoba bafunge esidlangalaleni ukuthi bazolinda ukushada kuze kube kusemthethweni ukushada kwabantu bobulili obufanayo esifundazweni saseNew York. Ngokushesha ngemva kokuphasiswa komthetho ehlobo lika-2011, u-Nixon waqala ukulungiselela usuku lwakhe olukhulu.
“Angikaze ngicabange ngeyami Ingubo yomshado ukukhula,” kuvuma uNixon. “Hhayi kanye. Angiyena nje omunye walawo mantombazane. Akuhlangene nokuba yisitabane - ngenkathi nginendoda, angizange ngicabange nangengubo yami yomshado. Eqinisweni, ngichithe ingxenye enkulu yokuphila kwami ngingafuni ukushada. Kodwa lapho ekugcineni nginquma ukukwenza, ngabona ukuthi ngifuna ingubo enhle yomcimbi.”
Ngenkathi u-Marinoni ebhekene nokuhlelwa komshado okuningi - "engibonga ngakho phakade," kusho u-Nixon - umlingisi ugxile ekugqokeni kwakhe. Ngemva kokusebenza noCarolina Herrera esikhathini esidlule, akazange angabaze ukubuyela kuye futhi. Ngenkathi uhlangana no umklami nethimba lakhe, uNixon ukhumbula ebatshela, “‘Ningacabangi ngami njengomlobokazi. Ngicabange njengowesifazane osekhulile odinga ingubo ukuze ashade.” Kodwa uHerrera akazange ezwe ngakho. Wathi, 'Kudingeka uthole ingubo enosonhlamvukazi D. Ngakho-ke ngisho noma ingemhlophe, kunezinga elithile lomkhosi."
Umbala u-Nixon awukhethele ingubo yakhe ubuluhlaza, awuchaza njengombala wakhe “wokuhamba,” mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi wadlala u-Miranda onekhanda elibomvu iminyaka eminingi nemibala yakhelwe inhlanganisela ethophayo. Ngokufanelekela umshado omkhulu wama-Apple, uNixon uphawula ukuthi ingubo imkhumbuza “ngesakhiwo esinamabhilidi esitezi sobuciko.” Enye imininingwane ebalulekile - ukugcina isitimela sifushane. “Esinye sezifundo engizifundile eminyakeni eminingi yokugqoka ama- gown kuya emiklomelweni ukuthi abantu bahlale benyathela isitimela sakho,” usho kanje. “Lena yayinesitimela, kodwa sasincane ngokwanele ukuthi wawungakwazi ukuhamba nokudansa kuso. Angiyena umdansi omkhulu, kodwa kufanele udanse okungenani kancane emshadweni wakho.”
Njengoba inkinga yezingubo isixazululiwe, u-Nixon wakwazi ukushintsha ukugxila kwakhe kwenye inkinga: izinwele zakhe. Ngaleso sikhathi, u-Nixon, obedlala ku-Broadway selokhu kwaphela izinsuku zakhe “Zocansi Nedolobha”, wayephuce ikhanda ukuze adlale uprofesa onomdlavuza wesibeletho ku-“Wit.” Wonke umuntu wayebonakala enombono ngendlela u-Nixon okufanele alungise ngayo izinwele zakhe emshadweni - kusukela kumkakhe, owayecabanga ukuthi ikhanda lika-Nixon elinempandla kuzoba yibo bonke abantu ababekhuluma ngakho, kumama wakhe, owaphakamisa ukuthi agqoke ikepisi yobuhlalu efana naleyo. UWhitney Houston wayegqoka lapho eshada noBobby Brown ngo-1992. Ekugcineni wanquma “iribhoni elisiliva nelimhlophe elizungezwe kabili ekhanda lami,” okwaphakanyiswa ithimba likaHerrera, u-Nixon anamathisela kulo izinyoni zothando zedayimane u-Fred Leighton. .
Ngokuhambisana nesitayela sakhe somshado esingesona esomdabu, u-Nixon akazange akhathazeke u-Marinoni ebona ingubo yakhe ngaphambi komkhosi. Umdlali we-actress wathumela umkakhe izithombe ezivela ezintweni ezihlukahlukene, "Ngeke ngisho lokho akusho kimi ngakho - kuqondene naye - kodwa ukhulume izinto eziningi ezinhle." Ngosuku olukhulu, abesifazane bazilungiselela ndawonye njengezingane zabo - indodana yabo uMax, enezinyanga ezingu-19, kanye nezingane zikaNixon ebudlelwaneni bakhe noDanny Mozes, uSamantha, 16, kanye noCharles, 9 - balinda eduze.
Uthi: “Ngicabanga ukuthi angikaze ngicabange ngengubo yami yomshado kwaze kwaba yilapho kudingekile, ngoba leyo yindlela engibheka ngayo izinto eziningi, hhayi imfashini kuphela. “Uma ngenza umsebenzi othile, ngibone kungcono ukuthi ngingangeni nomqondo oqinile waleyo ndima. Kufanele ulinde zonke izakhi ukuthi zihlangane - abalingisi, abasebenzi, umqondisi - ngaphambi kokuthi ulindele ukuthi uzobhekana kanjani nakho. Futhi endabeni yomshado wami, lapho usuhlangene, wawuphelele. "
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