USYLVIA NO-ALISA: INDABA ENGAKHOLEKILE YOTHANDO
SAHLANGANA KANJANI?
Sihlangane kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqala ngemuva kokuthi abangani besicindezele ngephutha ukuthi sidale i-akhawunti futhi siqale ukuhlangana nabantu. Ngisanda kuthuthela endaweni yase-Bay kusuka e-Utah ngemva kokuhlukana futhi u-Alisa wayebhekene nesehlukaniso esibi. Ngemuva kwamahora angu-5 wokubuyela emuva komlayezo wohlelo lokusebenza, kanye namakhulu ezinkinga ezintsha zohlelo lokusebenza sinqume ukushintshanisa izinombolo, sobabili sasazi ukuthi akekho noyedwa wethu owayelungele enye into ngaphandle kwenkampani enkulu. Ekupheleni kwesonto konke lokho kwase kuvele ngefasitela futhi sahlela usuku lwethu lokuqala.
USUKU LWETHU LOKUQALA
Ngangimusha endaweni ngakho engangikubuza kwakuwukuthi asifuni ukuchitha isikhathi sokuzenzisa sidla izibukeli ezinesisindo esilinganiselwe esithatha amashekhi amabili ukuze silulame. Sahlangana kulo bhiya wezandla wendawo hang out eduze nendawo yakhe, babenamaloli okudla (amaphuzu, ngangiwumpheki onothando olukhulu ngendawo yeloli), imidlalo kanye nobhiya wezandla omangalisayo. Wathi engena ngabona ukuthi kuphelile ngami. Akagcinanga nje ngokuhlangabezana nakho konke akufunayo uma kuziwa kubuntu nengxoxo…waze wahlangana nomzuzu “wokuhehwa ngokushesha”. Izinyawo ezi-6, izinwele ezinde ezi-blonde, amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nokugijima. Kwabonakala sengathi kwakuyimizuzwana nje embalwa, kodwa ngemva kwamahora angu-7 ithenda yebha kwadingeka isixoshe. Sachitha amahora angu-7 sikhuluma futhi singaboni lutho nanoma ubani oseduze nathi. I-Cheesy, ngiyazi .. kodwa kuyiqiniso elimangalisayo.
Ngubani othe "ngiyakuthanda" kuqala?
Ngenzile. Ngemva konyaka sithandana, ngamshiyela ukudla kwasemini ehhovisi lakhe futhi lapho siqabulana, ngathi “Kulungile, sobonana kamuva. Ngiyakuthanda ”… ebhalwe ngumsindo wami. Wabe esephuma ngesivinini endaweni yokupaka ngaphambi kokuba aphendule. Ngisanda kuphuma.
UKWANGA KWETHU OKUQALA
Kwakuwubusuku bosuku lwethu lokuqala. Ngemuva kokuthi sikhishwe ebha, sakhohlwa amakhadi ethu esikweletu nethebhu yethu ivuliwe. Ngakho sabuyela emuva, savala. Wahamba wabuyela emotweni yami futhi saxoxa imizuzu embalwa mayelana nezinhlelo zethu ngakusasa. Wabe egoba phansi (oh ndoda mude) futhi kwaba ukuxhumana okuhlanyayo engake ngakuzwa. Wasukuma emamatheka ngahleba, “Yebo, ngeke sibe abangane nje kuphela”.
Umshado Wethu
Hawu madoda yinde lena. Ngangiwumphathi wompheki kanye nendawo yokudlela, ngakho ngangisebenza ebusuku, izimpelasonto namaholide. Ngakho kwadingeka alinde olunye usuku lokugubha usuku lwethu lwezithandani. Ngakho, ngahlela ukugibela ibhayisikili kanye nepikiniki epaki lendawo elithule. Ngadeka itafula engikuphathele kona, kwasabalalisa kahle kancane kanye a plan ukushintshana ngezipho zosuku lwe-valentine. Sadla, saxoxa njengenjwayelo futhi kwasa kumnandi. Sekuzoshaya intambama ngimnike ikhadi lakhe levalentines day. Ukube bekungesona isitoreji bengizobeka igama ngalinye elilodwa engilibhale lapha, ekugcineni kwekhadi bese ngithulula umuzwa wami ikhadi elishiwo…. “Bheka phansi”. Ngezansi kwekhadi ngiphakamise imbiza yensimbi engayilungisa futhi ngalungisa. Ngaphakathi bekuvulwe ingxenye yokugibela kanti phakathi nendawo kukhona indandatho yakhe. “Angisafuni ukuphinda ngichithe impilo yami ngihleka, ngimemeza ngimamatheka futhi ngikhala, ngibambe futhi ngithande omunye umuntu kulo mhlaba okungeyena. Ucabanga ukuthi ungakuthola enhliziyweni yakho ukuthi ufune ukwabelana impilo yethu yonke ndawonye? Futhi wathi “Yima, ingabe ukhona ngempela?'. Akudingekile ukusho ukuthi wethukile futhi wachitha imizuzu emi-3 elandelayo engigqolozele ezama ukungakhali… wabe esethi “Kodwa uthe awuzange….. Yebo kunjalo!”
UMSHADO WETHU
Asikwazanga ukuvumelana kokukhulu noma okuncane. Ngangifuna elula ngoba angithandi ukunakwa futhi wayefuna umshado omkhulu, njengoba ngangingakaze ngishade ngaphambili. Hhayi-ke i-COVID yafika onyakeni wethu womshado. Ngakho ngithole indlela yami LOL. Sasiyi-7 kuphela. Abangane bethu abaseduze abangu-3 bonke ababenendima kanye nezingane zami ezimbili. Sithole ingxenye encane yeSanta Cruz okwakungeyedolobha futhi sakwazi ukuqhubeka, sisho izifungo zethu bese siya esidlweni sakusihlwa endaweni yokudlela esiyikhethile, okwaba ngumakhelwane, sihlezi endaweni efanayo yesihlabathi. Umshado wasobhishi, ukushona kwelanga ngase-lighthouse. Kuzodingeka silondolozele i-honeymoon futhi sihlele lapho ukuhamba kungakhawulelwe kangako.
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