AKE ULEMON MAYELANA NOMYENI WAKHE OMANGALISAYO U-TIM MALONE
Iyiphi ingxenye emangaza kakhulu Don Lemon nesoka lakhe, uTim Malone?
“Indlela 'esivamile ngayo',” kusho uLemon emamatheka.
Ihange eligqamayo le-"CNN Tonight with Don Lemon" liyaqhakaza lapho likhuluma ngobudlelwano bakhe noMalone, umthengisi wezindlu onelayisensi noDouglas Elliman, okufakwa kuhlu kuhlanganisa nezindawo zokuhlala ezibiza izigidi zamadola eManhattan naseHamptons.
"Ngezinye izikhathi sidlala ngakho nabangani bethu - indlela esihluke ngayo," kusho uLemon ehleka. "Sithanda ukubuka ibhola, sihamba nge-ice skating, sipheka isidlo sakusihlwa, senza ama-puzzle."
Amakhasi abo e-Instagram abukeka njengesithombe kabusha esithi “Impilo Enhle Kakhulu” nge-Hamptons twist — ukuhamba ngesikebhe, izoso, amabhishi, ukudlala nezinja zabo ezintathu zokuhlenga, kanye nokugxuma endaweni yokudlela.
Konke kwaqala lapho lo mbhangqwana uhlangana ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku ngo-2015 e-Almond eBridgehampton.
"NgoLwesihlanu ebusuku kufana nomdidiyeli wezitabane," kusho uLemon, ochaze ukuthi waxhumana noMalone kwaze kwaba yilapho laba bobabili baqala ukuthandana ngokusemthethweni ngo-2016. Ngemuva kwalokho bathembisana umshado ngo-2019 ngobusuku bokhetho, futhi kulobu busika obudlule, bashayela baya U-Lowe use-Riverhead ukuze athenge uKhisimusi imihlobiso enqoleni yabo yokuqala ye-Ford Country Squire Woody yango-1987 - ukujikijela emotweni umndeni kaMalone owawukhulele kuwo eSouthampton.
“Kwakuyingane evamile nje,” kusho uMalone, owaphothula eSouthampton High School. “AbakwaHampton base bethule kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi. Ngicabanga ngempela ukuthi umnyakazo we-'dot com' ngasekupheleni kwawo-'90s washintsha ama-Hamptons futhi wawenza aqhuma. Leyo kwakuyinto eyodwa engenze ngangena kwi-real estate - ukubukela indawo thuthukisa futhi ubone ngempela indawo ethengiswayo enhle iguquka ngokuhamba kweminyaka. ”
Njengabanye, uLemon noMalone bakhethe ukuhlala empumalanga isikhathi esigcwele lapho i-COVID ihlasela, yize besanda kubuyela efulethini labo eManhattan.
“Ngibe nendlu [eSag Harbour] kusukela ngo-2016, ngakho-ke ngangihlale ngizwa sengathi lo mphakathi wakithi - futhi kwakuyintokozo ukuhlala lapho ngesikhathi sokuhlukaniswa... Kwangibuyisela ebuntwaneni bami,” kusho uLemon, owakhula. phezulu eLouisiana. “Izingane zizobe zigibela amabhayisikili, wawuzwa iphunga elimnandi elivela emizini yabantu… Bekumnandi kakhulu.”
Nokho, ukuguga edolobheni lakubo eBaton Rouge kwakungeyona into emnandi kangako kuLemon.
“Kimina, bekuphindwe kabili,” esho. “Ngenxa yokuthi wawuvele unesiteleka esisodwa ngoba wawuMnyama, waphinde waba yisitabane eMzansi — kunzima impela. Ngaphuma ngesikhathi esihluke kakhulu kunesikaTim. Kwakungamukelekile ukuba yisitabane nokuba ngaphandle. Abantu bebesashada namakhosikazi, bebesekamelweni, wena 'uhlala naye.' Ngasuka eLouisiana ukuze ngibe yimi, futhi ngeza eNew York ukuze ngiphile - futhi angizange ngibheke emuva. "
KuMalone, inselelo ibingaphumi kangako, kodwa ukuzijwayeza impilo nentatheli esakaza ngesikhathi sokuqala.
"Njengombhangqwana, ngicabanga ukuthi sinendaba ethokozisayo, ngokwehlukana kwethu ngeminyaka," kusho uMalone, ohlanganisa iminyaka engama-37 ngo-Ephreli. U-Lemon usanda kuhlanganisa iminyaka engu-55. “Sinezizinda ezihlukene, izinhlanga ezihlukene... Bekunemibuzo eminingi ngesikhathi siqala ukuthandana ngokuthi kuzoba yini inkinga, futhi iqiniso ukuthi, siyizitabane kwaba sengathi, ekugcineni Uhlu…
Ngaphezu kwe-gig yakhe yasebusuku ku-CNN, uLemon uphatha i-podcast, "Ukuthula Akuyona Inketho." Incwadi yakhe entsha, “Lokhu Umlilo: Engikusho Kubangani Bami Ngokucwasa,” ekhishwe ngoMashi 16, ingeyomuntu siqu futhi inothando.
“Ngicabanga ukuthi ukuze kulungiswe inkinga yokucwasa ngokwebala - ngoba kuyinkinga futhi idinga ukulungiswa - kufanele sihole ngothando, ngoba uma uhola ngenzondo noma ngentukuthelo, lokho ozokuthola yinzondo nentukuthelo. ,” kusho uLemon.
“Ukucwasa ngokwebala,” kwengeza uLemon, “kuyingozi njengokungalingani kwamandla noma othile okuhlukumezayo emsebenzini ngoba kumisa ubuhlakani bakho, kungase kukuvimbele ekuthuthukeni emsebenzini wakho, futhi kungaba nemiphumela yomuntu siqu.”
“Ngifisa sengathi kube khona umbutho ‘#UsToo’ wabantu abamnyama noma wemiphakathi ebinganakiwe yokucwasa ngokwebala nokucwasa emsebenzini njengoba kukhona i-‘#MeToo’,” usho kanje.
Uma sibheka phambili, lo mbhangqwana ufuna ukudlula ubhubhane futhi ushade. Nabo babheke phambili ethembeni lokuba nezingane.
“UTim kufanele abe nezingane ngoba mncane,” kuncokola uLemon. “Kusafanele sibheke ukuthi isizinda sasekhaya sizoba kuphi. Kuyajabulisa, futhi kuyethusa kancane ukuba nale mpilo encane esizobhekana nayo.”
Okwamanje, uLemon noMalone bajabulela isikhathi sabo sokuphumula bephuma empumalanga, endaweni lapho bezwa khona “umuzwa wangempela womphakathi nekhaya nomndeni.”
"Abantu bacabanga ngama-Hamptons futhi bacabanga ukuthi 'O, yinhle futhi inothile noma yini' - futhi siphila nje okuvamile lapho," kusho uLemon. UMalone unanela lo muzwa: “Lokho kuwukhiye—ukubaleka.”
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