U-JAYMES VAUGHAN NO-JONATHAN BENNETT: UNGAWUHLELA KANJANI UMSHADO WEPHUPHO LAKHO
“Ayikho imithetho. Sicabanga ukuthi kunemithetho kuphela,” kusho isihlabani se-Mean Girls somshado wakhe noVaughan ongajwayelekile.
Ekubhekeni kwaBANTU okukhethekile odabeni lwe-The Knot's Summer 2021, lo mbhangqwana wavula isifuba ngemishado yawo ezayo engeyona eyendabuko.
“Sesiyahlukana kancane nesiko, ngoba kusizani? Umshado wakho. Ungenza noma yini oyifunayo. Ayikho imithetho. Sicabanga ukuthi kunemithetho kuphela,” kusho umlingisi weMean Girls, 39.
Lo mlingisi uveze ukuthi yena noVaughan, 38, bebewenza owabo umshado. “Ngeke sibe nabakhwenyana noma amadoda aphambili. Sizoba namantombazane nabafana bethu abangcono kakhulu ezimpilweni zethu, ohlangothini ngalunye lwethu, senze iphathi enkulu yomshado,” kusho uBennett. “Elinye isiko esileqayo elokungabonani ngosuku lomshado wethu. Ungumngane wami omkhulu. Uma ngingamboni ngaphambi komshado ngizokhuluma nobani? Nakuba singabangoduso, singabangane abakhulu kuqala.”
UVaughan wengeze wathi, “Siyadingana ngoba siyazi ukuthi omunye udingani. Iphuzu eliphelele liwukuba nichithe isikhathi esiningi ndawonye njengomkhaya bese nihamba njengomkhaya omkhulu nakakhulu.”
UVaughan uhlongoze uBennett ngokumbhalela eyakhe ingoma yothando futhi aguqe ngedolo elilodwa, lo mbhangqwana wembulela ABANTU ngoNovemba 2020.
“Wangibhalela ingoma! Besiyohlale sizwa izingoma bese ucabanga, 'O bekungaba yingoma yethu lelo ukube le ngxenye noma leyo ngxenye ibihlukile,' ngakho ngenxa yalokho, besingenayo ingoma 'eyethu,'” u-Bennett etshela ABANTU ngaleso sikhathi. U-Vaughan, umsakazi we-TV kanye nomsunguli oyinhloko Wekhasi Losaziwayo, ukwazile ukuqoqa imindeni yabo ukuze bathole isithombe "sekhadi likaKhisimusi lomndeni" njengezaba zokuba khona kwabathandekayo babo.
“Udadewethu wangimemeza ethi angiphumele ngaphandle ‘ngokushesha ngempela’ futhi iFOMO yami yangikhahlela ngakho ngabalekela ngaphandle. Ngabe sengibheka ngabona uJaymes ephethe uphawu oluthi, 'Asikaze siyithole ingoma yethu, ngakho ngikubhalele yona,'” kukhumbula uBennett. “Yilapho engazi khona ukuthi usezocelwa umshado ngoba kwakuwuphawu alwenza ngesikhathi engitshela ukuthi uyangithanda. Ngabe sengiqala ukukhala kabi kunawo wonke owake wakhala.”
UBennett wanezela: “Angisakwazi ukulinda ukushada!”
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