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U-TAN NO-ROB FRANCE: INDABA YOTHANDO

Kuningi okwenzekayo empilweni ye-Queer Eye's Fab Five njengamanje-ikakhulukazi i-Tan France, manje olindele ngokusemthethweni ingane yakhe yokuqala nomyeni wakhe, uRob France.

Umbhangqwana usushade iminyaka engaphezu kweyishumi (!) futhi, njengoba kuvela, sino-Rob okumele simbonge ngokuthola i-fashion guru yethu esiyintandokazi ukuthi ivele ohlelweni.

Yebo, engxoxweni abe nayo neThe Mirror, uTan uveze ukuthi ngumyeni wakhe owamphusha ukuthi enze i-Queer Eye, yize ebefuna ukukwenqaba.

Kusukela ekuhlanganeni kwabo oku-inthanethi kuya emndenini wabo okhulayo, nakhu konke esikwaziyo mayelana nomyeni ka-Tan, u-Rob.

 

1. UBANI U-TAN FRANCE'S UMYENI, ROB?

Ungumdwebi wezithombe ozifundisa yedwa othengisa izingcezu zakhe eziyingqayizivele, zangempela ku-inthanethi. Ngokusho kwesizindalwazi sakhe esisemthethweni, ugxile kakhulu ezithombeni nemifanekiso yezibalo. (Bheka isithombe sakhe sikaTan ngenhla).

Nokho, ubengahlali njalo esendleleni eya kwezobuciko. Engxoxweni neCity Weekly yango-2015, uRob uthe empeleni wayengumhlengikazi wezingane owayezifela ngobuciko ohlangothini. O, futhi sishilo ukuthi unenkundla yezokuxhumana enkulu kakhulu elandelayo?

Umhlengikazi wezingane, umdwebi kanye nomgqugquzeli wenkundla yezokuxhumana? Kuyahlaba umxhwele.

2. WAHLANGANA KUPHI NO TAN?

Engxoxweni ekhethekile ne New York Post, U-Tan uveze ukuthi yena no-Rob empeleni bahlangana kuwebhusayithi yokuphola emuva ngo-2008 futhi bavele bashaya phansi. (Siqagela ukuthi abanye osaziwayo abahlukile kangako kithi phela).

Lapho exoxa ngokuthi kungani laba ababili bezwana kangaka—abavela ezizindeni ezihluke kakhulu—umsiki wengqephu wathi inkolo inendima enkulu.

“Kwakwenza kwaba lula ukujola nomuntu ofana nami. Angibuphuzi utshwala, angibhemi,” kusho uFrance. “Senza eminye yemikhuba yezinkolo zethu. Asizilolongi zonke. Senza lokho okusisebenzelayo.”

 

3. UHLALA KUPHI?

Nakuba azalelwa e-Wyoming, uRob uphile ingxenye enkulu yempilo yakhe e-Utah—ikakhulukazi, eSalt Lake City. Akuphelanga sikhathi esingakanani laba bobabili beqala ukuthandana, lo mbhangqwana wayazi ukuthi ufuna ukuchitha izimpilo zabo ndawonye, ​​​​akahlala endaweni efanayo. U-Tan, owayehlala e-NYC ngaleso sikhathi, wayesevele enothando lwe-Salt Lake, futhi ngemva kokuthandana noRob ngokushesha, wanquma ukuthatha isinyathelo.

"Saqala ukuthandana futhi, yebo, ngabona ukuthi nguyena ngemuva kwalokho," kusho uTan ISalt Lake Tribune. Ngakho ngahlela ukuthi i-Utah ibe yikhaya lami.

4. BATHANDANA NINI?

Esiqeshini sesibili sesizini yesibili I-Queer Eye, sithole ukunambitheka okuncane kokungahlongozwa kuka-Tan ku-Rob.

“Uyazi besingekho isiphakamiso sangempela. Kwakuyindaba yokuthi, 'sizoshada ngelinye ilanga, akunjalo?' 'Yebo, kunjalo,'” uTan etshela ozakwabo. “Besisanda kuvumelana ukuthi kuzokwenzeka ngelinye ilanga sase sihlela usuku.”

 

 

5. ABANAZO ABANTWANA NDAWONYE?

Hhayi okwamanje, kodwa banayo eyodwa endleleni!

The Qhawe Eye Inkanyezi isanda kwabelana ngezindaba ezithokozisayo ku-Instagram yakhe siqu ngokuthumela isithombe sakhe esingenahembe ephethe i-sonogram esiswini sakhe. “Ngijabule kakhulu ekugcineni ukwabelana ngokuthi SINEMNTWANA!!” ubhale amazwibela ngaphambi kokuthi acacise, “Cha, angikhulelwe, naphezu kwalesi sithombe esingokoqobo KAKHULU.”

U-France uqhubekile wathi, “Ngesipho/usizo olukhulu kakhulu lomuntu oshade naye omangalisayo, mina no-Rob sinenhlanhla yokuba sendleleni yokuba abazali, kuleli hlobo. Into ebesiyifuna iminyaka SOooo eminingi. Izinhliziyo zethu zigcwele kakhulu manje. Angisakwazi ukulinda ukubamba le ngane, futhi ngiyibonise uthando olungaka.”

Ngaphambi kokukhishwa kwesizini yesibili ye I-Queer Eye ngo-2018, uTan wavula Iphephandaba mayelana nesifiso sakhe sokuba nezingane eziyisithupha (yebo, ukufunda lokho ngendlela efanele) nge-surrogacy nomyeni wakhe.

"Ngicabanga ukuthi esikwenza kahle ohlelweni, noma okwenziwe kahle yiNetflix, kuphonswe abantu abahlanu abakhuluma ngokukhululeka ngendlela emangalisayo futhi abanemibono nabakhulumayo futhi ngingomunye walabo bantu futhi ngizizwa nginenhlanhla ngokuba sesimweni lapho ngifika khona. khuluma ngalokho engifuna ukukwenza. Futhi uma ngifuna ukuba nezingane ngiyafuna ukukhuluma ngayo futhi akekho ongathi ayilungile ahlukane nayo,” kusho uTan. “Ngibafuna ngempela abayisithupha. Ngizoba nezine. Futhi cha, eziyisithupha akuyona imithwalo. Sekwanele.”

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