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U-Anthony no-Antonio - Uthando oluvela ku-"Sawubona"

Lena indaba yamadoda amabili athola umlingani wabo womphefumulo.

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Ukuhlangana kokuqala kanye nemizwa yokuqala

Baqale ukuhlangana ngoDisemba 8, 2018, lapho bethulwa umngane wabo bobabili, owayecabanga ukuthi bazofanelana kahle. Akekho noyedwa kubo owayebheke ukuba sebudlelwaneni ngaleso sikhathi; nokho, umngane wabo wayazi futhi enomuzwa wokuthi banezimfanelo ezifanayo kakhulu futhi bobabili beyizinto zomshado komunye nomunye. Ngemva kwemizamo eminingana yokuzama ukubahlanganisa, wahlela uhambo lwangempelasonto oluya eDolobheni laseNew York neqembu labangane, akekho noyedwa owayazi ukuthi omunye uyahamba. Yaqala ke indaba yabo yothando. Kwakuwuthando ekuqaleni. 

amadoda amabili, ifulegi le-lgbt

U-Anthony: “Uthando lwethu lwaqala lapho sithi, “Sawubona”. Indlela engcono kakhulu engingawuchaza ngayo lo muzwa kungaba ifilimu ethi, “Can't Buy Me Love”, osemusha othanda okokuqala ngqa, ukucwayiza kwamehlo, izimvemvane esiswini, futhi ephelelwa amazwi lapho oyedwa noyedwa umuntu odlulayo uya ekilasini labo elilandelayo. Ngaphandle kwalolu kwakungelona uthando lomdlwane osemusha, lokhu kwakuyinto yangempela. Kusinike sobabili umuzwa ogcwele wenjabulo.”

Qala Ukuqomisana

Uhambo lothando lwaqala nge-hello elula eyashintsha yaba into ongeke uyicabange. Ngemva kwesonto bethulwe, bahamba ngosuku lwabo lokuqala ngoDisemba 14, 2018 baya eBartaco futhi babona ukuthi kukhona okukhangayo ngokushesha okungaphezu kwalokho abakubona ngaphandle. Njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka, basondelana nakakhulu. Amazwi kwakungadingeki ukuthi akhulunywe ukuze bazi ukuthi bayathandana kusukela ekuqaleni. Kwakuwumuzwa ongajwayelekile ojulile ngaphakathi owawuzwakala kuphela. Uthando lujulile kangangokuthi amazwi angeke achaze. Lapho bezama ukuchazelana ukuthi bazizwa kanjani, bavele bagqolozelene emehlweni bechiphiza izinyembezi zenjabulo. Yingaleso sikhathi lapho bazi ukuthi bamtholile umphefumulo wabo.

izitabane ezimbili eduze kwezihlahla
izitabane ezimbili eduze komthombo

Esikhathini esifushane kangako, kwaba sengathi bazana phakade, futhi babemiselwe ukuba ndawonye. Ukuqomisana kwashintsha ngokushesha kwaba ubuhlobo obuqinile obabugcwele uthando, injabulo, ukuzinza, nokuzibophezela. 

izitabane ezimbili eduze kwamanzi

U-Antonio wayeseqenjini lendawo labafana abakhula ngasekupheleni kweminyaka yawo-1990 eyaziwa ngokuthi yiTouch of Quality wabe esejoyina uDa Fellas. Ekuqaleni konyaka uzwakalise intshisekelo yokufuna ukuphinde acule kanti u-Anthony wameseka ngokuphelele futhi wamkhuthaza. U-Antonio ukhiphe ingoma yakhe yokuqala njengomculi oyedwa ngoJanuwari ka-2020 ebizwa ngokuthi “Falling Deep For You”. Ingoma yayinikezelwe ku-Anthony ekhuluma ngendlela amthola ngayo umngane wakhe ophelele, lowo ayehlale ephupha ngaye.  

Isiphakamiso

Isiphakamiso sathathwa indawo ngo-Ephreli 3, 2019 e-Ft. Lauderdale eThe Rooftop, indawo yokuphumula ebheke idolobha. Bobabili babazi futhi bezwa ezinhliziyweni zabo ukuthi bafuna ukuchitha izimpilo zabo zaphakade ndawonye. Bahlela uhambo olude lwempelasonto oluya eMiami. U-Anthony wafika ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngemva kuka-Antonio futhi wafika e-Ft. Lauderdale lapho u-Antonio esevele ehlele ukuhlala ubusuku bonke ngaphambi kokuya eMiami ngosuku olulandelayo. U-Antonio wathatha u-Anthony waya naye e-The Rooftop lapho bachitha isikhathi esithile bexoxa futhi bejabulela umbono omangalisayo. Kamuva ngalobo busuku, u-Antonio wahlongoza futhi u-Anthony wavuma ngokushesha. Ababekhona abambalwa bathatha izithombe zalesi sikhathi. Kamuva baya ekamelweni lasehhotela elalimbozwe amakhandlela nezimbali. Kwakuwubusuku obumangalisayo!

Amalungiselelo omshado

Baqale baqala izinhlelo zabo zomshado ngoJuni 2019. Bobabili bavuma ukuthi bafuna umshado walapho beya khona.

izindandatho zomshado ezandleni

Bafinyelela kumenzeli wezokuvakasha wendawo, i-Liberty Travel ukuze ibasize ekutholeni indawo yokungcebeleka. I-Liberty Travel ibanikeze uhlu lwezindawo zokungcebeleka futhi banquma nge-The Grand At The Moon Palace eCancun, eMexico. Kodwa-ke, indawo yokungcebeleka yazisa i-Liberty Travel ukuthi ayinikezi imishado yobulili obufanayo kunoma iyiphi indawo yayo (yize ibika ukuthi ihambisana ne-LGBT). Ngokubheka ukudumala kwabo, banqume ukuthi bangasebenzisani neLiberty Travel, njengoba benomuzwa wokuthi kufanele ngabe sebelwazi kakade lolu lwazi ngaphambi kokubanika indawo yokungcebeleka njengendlela yokukhetha.

abakhwenyana ababili

Babe sebedluliselwa yisihlobo ku-Michelle Tarbush we-Take a Vacation, LLC. U-Michelle waba usizo kakhulu futhi wabazisa nge-Hard Rock Los Cabos okwakulindeleke ukuthi ivulwe ehlobo lika-2019. Ngokushesha bathanda indawo yokuvakasha futhi baxhunyaniswa nomhleli womshado ovela e-Hard Rock. I abahleli bomshado abasebenza nabo babemangalisa kakhulu futhi bekwazi ukufeza imibono yabo. Basebenza ngqo ne Abathengisi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi u-Anthony no-Antonio babenomshado ophelele. Umshado wabo ekuqaleni wawuhlelelwe uMeyi 25, 2020. Kodwa-ke, ekupheleni kuka-Ephreli 2020 kwadingeka benze isinqumo esinzima sokuhlehlisa umshado wabo ngenxa yobhadane lwe-COVID-19. Babephoxekile impela kodwa bazi ukuthi ubhubhane ngeke lubavimbe. Bobabili u-Antonio no-Anthony bagubha izinsuku zabo zokuzalwa ngo-Agasti (u-Anthony, Agasti 29 kanye no-Antonio, Agasti 30), ngakho banquma ukushada ngo-Agasti 31, 2020.

abakhwenyana ababili

Babenomshado osondelene omangalisayo nabangane babo abaseduze abangu-18 nomndeni. Bazihlelela isonto lonke izivakashi zabo imisebenzi, kusukela befika kwaze kwaba usuku abasuka ngalo. Babazi ukuthi izivakashi zabo zazihambe ibanga elide futhi zikhathazekile ngokuhamba ngenxa yalolu bhubhane, ngakho-ke babefuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi baphathwa njengamakhosi nezindlovukazi. Bahlele ukugibela amakamela, ama-cabana angasese, ibhendi ye-mariachi, ukushona kwelanga kwangasese esikebheni esihlanganisa isidlo sakusihlwa nendawo evulekile, kanye nokubhukuda namahlengethwa. Kwakuyisonto elimangalisayo! 

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