U-Ashley noJillian - indaba yothando
Isiqalo sendaba
UJill no-Ashley bahlangana ngomngane oseduze, ekhonsathini. Ngenkathi u-Ashley ehlangana noJillian wathatha wonke umkhathi ngamandla akhe kanye nokumamatheka. Ngemuva kwalokho noma nini lapho bazi ukuthi iqembu labangane babo lizobe lifana indawo emcimbini ofanayo bobabili babezama ngandlela thize "ukugijima" komunye nomunye lapho. Akekho kubo owayengashadile ngesikhathi esifanayo iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-10.
Ekugcineni, u-Jillian wamema u-Ashley e-Michigan Vs. Michigan State tailgate naye kanye nabanye abangani. U-Ashley wanquma ukusho kanye nje ahambe! (Kwadingeka aphume ayothenga ihembe leSifundazwe saseMichigan ukuze alingane nesixuku sakhe, ngoba Wayehlale engumlandeli oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka negolide! haha) Ngemva kwalolo suku, bebelokhu bengahlukani kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. UJill ungumuntu omangalisa kakhulu u-Ashley ake ahlangana naye, futhi ungumphefumulo omuhle kakhulu emhlabeni wonke. U-Ashley ujabule kakhulu izindlela zabo ekugcineni zibahlanganise.
Isinyathelo sokuqala
Aqale ngokuqabula. U-Ashley: "Ukwanga kwethu kokuqala kwaba ukuphela kosuku lwethu lokuqala! Ngaphambi kokuba ngehle emotweni yakhe, angisoze ngakukhohlwa, “Angisoze ngakukhohlwa” kwakusemsakazweni haha”
Ubunzima bokubona njengombhangqwana ongqingili
Kwesinye isikhathi zisekhona izinselelo. Osebenza no-Ashley usanda kumbuza ukuthi “kungani kukhona omakoti ababili?” Bayakwazi ukudlula ezikhathini ezinzima ndawonye njengeqembu. Balwela okulungile, nomndeni wabo wesikhathi esizayo.
Umehluko Nezimpikiswano
Inselele yabo enkulu ukuthi basafunda kanjani izindlela ezihlukene zomunye nomunye nokuthi bangahlanganisa kanjani izimpilo zabo ezihlukene zibe yinto eyodwa.
Isiphakamiso
U-Ashley wayazi ukuthi uJill ungumuntu ayefuna ukuchitha impilo yakhe yonke naye ngesikhathi sokuqala behlezi bodwa esangweni langemuva. Akakaze abe nobumnandi obungaphezulu kozakwethu empilweni yakhe. U-Ashley uhlongoze uJill kungakapheli unyaka wokuphola, ngokumangala ekhaya. Indawo ekhanyayo phakathi kwekhaya labo, futhi inophawu enjeni yabo imbongolo ecela uJill ukuthi "asishade."
Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kamuva, uJill wavala amehlo u-Ashley wamyisa epaki yedolobha lakubo, lapho u-Ashley akhulela khona ehamba nomngane wakhe omkhulu, umkhulu wakhe uJoe, wamcela umshado lapho ngasemanzini. Kwakucatshangelwe kakhulu futhi kwakusho umhlaba ku-Ashley.
Wedding
Ekuqaleni bebehlele umshado wabantu abangama-250 ogcwele abangani nomndeni wabo, kepha ngenxa yalolu bhubhane kwadingeka bahlele kabusha izikhathi ezi-3. Bagcina benza umshado omncane osondelene ngemuva kwabazali bakaJillian, nephathi yabo yomshado, abashade nabo kanye nomndeni oseduze.
Kwaba ngcono kunalokho ababekucabanga. U-Jill no-Ashley bathole ukuchitha izikhathi eziningi ezisondelene phakathi nosuku lwabo kanye nokuba luncane futhi babonga kakhulu. Bathemba ukuthi bazogubha nabanye abangani babo nomndeni phansi komgwaqo njengoba bebakhumbule kakhulu.
Amalungiselelo omshado
Bachitha isikhathi esiningi benza ezabo izingcezu ezimaphakathi/izilungiselelo zetafula, izimbali zomshado, amashadi ezihlalo, izimpawu ze-covid, iziteshi zokuhlanza, i-trellis yabo yomcimbi, bedala ukukhanya egcekeni elingemuva, njll. Basebenze kanzima ezintweni eziningi kubantu ababili. iminyaka futhi ekugcineni kwakhokha.
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