Kufanele Siwutshele Kanjani Umndeni Ongasisekeli Ukuthi Sithembisene Umshado?

Q:

Sisanda kuthembisana umshado futhi sikujabulele kakhulu ukutshela umhlaba. Sesikushilo lokho, sesitshele abambalwa kuphela abangani bethu abakhulu ngoba akuwona wonke umndeni wethu osisekelayo. Iyiphi indlela elula yokutshela wonke umuntu (ngaphandle nje kokushintsha isimo sethu ku-Facebook!)?

A:

Ayikho ngempela indlela engalungile yokumemezela ukuthembisana kwakho umshado, kodwa iseluleko sethu ukuthi uqale utshele labo abanisekela kakhulu nobabili njengombhangqwana, kungaba abangani bakho abaseduze noma umndeni. Ukwenza kanjalo kufanele kusize ukwakha ukuzethemba ongase ukudinge uma sekuyisikhathi sokutshela abantu abangakusekeli kangako.

Futhi, ungaphuthelwa yithuba lokuba nephathi yomshado. Ungamemezela ukuhlanganyela kwakho ephathini njengokumangazayo noma uhlele iphathi ngemva kokwenza isimemezelo sakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-bash enkulu egcwele ibhendi noma ukuhlangana okuncane ku-hangout yasendaweni eyintandokazi yakho, qiniseka ukuthi ufaka bonke abaseduze nawe nababathandayo.

Futhi ngemva kokuba usutshele bonke abangani bakho nomndeni, zisekhona izindlela eziningi zokumemezela nokukhumbula izindaba zakho ezijabulisayo. Thola umshado Izithombe kuthathwe (indlela enhle yokuhlolela umthwebuli wezithombe wakho usuku lomshado), bese ucabanga ngokuthumela isimemezelo ephephandabeni langakini. Ungagcina isiqeshana ku-albhamu yakho yomshado noma i-scrapbook ukuze uthole izinkumbulo ezihlala njalo.