Izithandani ze-Queer softball - u-DANIELLE NO-Carolyn
Ibhola elithambile. uthando lokuqala. isipiliyoni sokuqala nowesifazane
Danielle wahlangana noCarolyn emidlalweni ye-softball. Kwakungokokuqala uDanielle wajola nentombazane. Futhi wayengayiqondi kahle yonke imizwa ayenayo. Ngokushesha uDanielle wazizwa esondelene naye.
Ukuhlangana kokuqala kanye nokubonakala kokuqala
Umbono wokuqala kaDanielle ngoCarolyn
UDanielle wayenamandla ngoCarolyn ayengakwazi ukuwathola okwanele. Ngemva kwemidlalo eminingi ye-softball, iqembu laliyophuza ngemva kwalokho futhi uDanielle wayehlale elindile emotweni waze wabona uCarolyn engena endaweni yokupaka ukuze bangene ndawonye :)) Wayefuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi bahlala eduze komunye nomunye. ibha!
Umbono wokuqala kaCarolyn ngoDanielle
Ngaphambi kokuhlangana nodadewabo kaDanielle Carolyn empeleni wahlangana naye ngoba wayedlala naseqenjini le-softball. Utshele uCarolyn ukuthi kukhona othile eqenjini acabanga ukuthi uCarolyn angamthanda. Lapho uCarolyn ehlangana noDanielle, wakhangwa nakanjani kuye, kodwa wayengakaphumi futhi wayemanqikanqika ukungena ebuhlotsheni nomuntu owayengekho emndenini nakubangane babo okwamanje. Ekugcineni, akakwazanga ukumelana. Unomusa futhi ungumuntu ohlale ufuna ukuba naye ngenxa yokukhanya akuletha kukho konke ukuhlangana.
Izinyathelo zokuqala
Ngesikhathi se-softball basheshe baba abangani futhi baqala ukuthumela imiyalezo nsuku zonke. Njengoba beqhubeka bexoxa kwaba yilapho bevulelana isifuba. UCarolyn wahamba wayoqeqeshelwa uthisha we-yoga isikhathi esingangenyanga futhi bahlanganyela ngamunye ngamunye ngesonto abuya ngalo futhi waqhubeka nokusondela. Kungakabiphi ngemva kwalokho izinto zaqala ukuba zimbi nakakhulu futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa uCarolyn wacela uDanielle ukuba abe intombi yakhe lapho baseMade in America ePhiladelphia ngokuqondile ngemva kokubona uNick Jonas enza. UCarolyn wayegqoke i-claddagh ring futhi waphendukela kuDanielle futhi wambuza ukuthi angakwazi yini ukuyibeka endleleni "elungile".
Aqale ngokuqabula. Ngosuku lokuzalwa luka-Danielle lwama-23 embhedeni wakhe endlini yomzali wakhe. Eshu...
Okokuqala - ngiyakuthanda! UCarolyn wayengowokuqala, wanika uDanielle umgexo kaKhisimusi futhi wawuthi "Ngiyakuthanda" ngekhodi ye-morse. Wakhala okokuqala ngqa.
Ubunzima bokubona njengombhangqwana ongqingili onabazali noma abangani
UCarolyn wayeyintombazane yokuqala uDanielle owake wathandana nayo ngakho yebo lokhu kwakunzima. Lapho nje uDanielle ebona ukuthi uzizwa engathí sina ngaye, wabona ukuthi kufanele atshele umndeni wakhe nabangane. Ngokuqinisekile kwathatha abazali bakhe iminyaka embalwa ukufika. Kodwa abangani bakhe babemuhle. Futhi ngenhlanhla, manje umndeni kaDanielle ususekela kakhulu. UCarolyn wayesephumile iminyaka engu-5 ngakho-ke umndeni wakhe wawuhlale ulungile mayelana nokuphola kwabo!
Futhi abazali bakaDanielle bahambe ibanga elide futhi bajabula kakhulu lapho bethembisana umshado. UCarolyn wayethukile lapho etshela abazali bakaDanielle. Ubehlele ukucela umshado kodwa wathi ingxoxo ibingcono kunalokho abekucabanga.
Umkhuba oyinqaba komunye nomunye
D: "Sobabili siyaqhudelana kakhulu futhi sizonda ukulahlekelwa. Uma sidlala imidlalo, okuyinto esiyenza kakhulu, omunye uhlezi ecasukile ukuthi wehluliwe kanti omunye uyabubula.”
Usuku lwesiphakamiso
Bobabili bakhulele e-NJ kodwa bathuthela eDenver, CO ngoJulayi odlule. UCarolyn wayefuna ukuthi umndeni ube khona lapho ehlongoza, ngakho wakwenza lapho bobabili bebuyela e-NJ beyovakasha. U-Carolyn wabhukha endaweni yokucima ukoma ukuze “athole iziphuzo” nodadewabo kanye nomlamu wakhe ngaphambi kokuya kobaba bakhe esidlweni sakusihlwa ngalobo busuku. Wacela umshado ophahleni lwendlu. Udadewabo wabuza ukuthi bangayithola yini izithombe phezulu lapho ngoba kwakumnandi kakhulu.
Ngemva kokuthola isithombe sethu sindawonye, uCarolyn waguqa ngedolo elilodwa wathi “Uyazi ukuthi ngikuthanda kangakanani? Ungangishada?" Yebo uthe YEBO (UDanielle naye waba nomuzwa wokuthi kuyeza. UCarolyn akalokothi acele izithombe!)
Lapho befika kubaba bakaCarolyn ngamangala lapho ngibona nomndeni wami lapho! UCarolyn waphinde wahlela ukuba umngane omkhulu kaDanielle kanye nengoduso yakhe beze futhi bonke babungaza umshado ngalobo busuku. Bekuwubusuku obukhethekile futhi kumnandi kakhulu ukuba nemindeni yethu yomibili ndawonye ukuze sigubhe. Umama kaCarolyn uphinde wanikeza uDanielle Carolyn indandatho yokucela isiphakamiso. Kwakuyindandatho kagogo wakhe futhi uCarolyn wayeyilungise kabusha.
Izinhlelo zekusasa
D: "Sisezinhlelweni zokuhlela umshado wethu manje. Sihlose u-2022 ngoba sobabili siphuma emindenini emikhulu ngempela futhi sifuna ukugubha nawo wonke umuntu."
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