I-LGBTQ Umndeni womama ababili: uCara, uCara nendodakazi uMyla
Ukwethula umlingani wakho enganeni yakho
UCara C.: “Hhayi-ke, uMyla empeleni ungowami ophilayo enganginawo ngaphambi kokuba ngiphume, futhi ngaphambi kokuba ngihlangane noCara W. Ngakhulisa uMyla ngedwa njengomama ongayedwana phakathi neminyaka yokuqala engu-5 yokuphila kwakhe. Ngake ngahlangana noCara W, ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqomisana ngamvumela ukuba ahlangane noMyla, futhi ngokoqobo ngaleso sikhathi, waba uMama. UCara W ubelokhu efuna izingane, futhi yena noMyla baxhumane ngendlela engakholeki engangingakaze ngiyicabange. UMyla usemthathile, futhi umthanda sengathi ubekhona ezimpilweni zethu kusukela ekuqaleni.”
Izibopho zomzali
I-Cara. C: “Senza umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu wokuhlukanisa imisebenzi yethu yobuzali/isikhathi! Ngenza konke ukulungisa/ isikole/ noma kuphi lapho kufanele aye khona, kodwa u-Cara W uyena odlalayo, owakha izinto, umsizi ngomsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya… ngakho sizama ngempela ukubhekana nalokho njengeqembu! Ngingathi ngingumzali oqinile, kodwa uCara W naye akakuthathi ukukhuluma kakhulu lol. Futhi sobabili siyazama ukuxoxa naye ngezinhliziyo zethu njengengxenye yomkhaya owodwa. Sifuna ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi uyaqonda ukuthi angeza kithi sobabili nganoma yini abhekene nayo, noma ashikashikana nayo, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sibe nalezo zingxoxo ezinzima njengomndeni!”
Izingxoxo nengane mayelana nokuthi imindeni ihlukene
I-Cara. C.: "YEBO!! Lesi yisihloko esibaluleke kangaka kithi! Hhayi nje ngenxa yokuthi siwumndeni wobulili obufanayo, kodwa ngoba sifuna uMyla abe ingane eyamukelayo yanoma ubani onomndeni oguquguqukayo oyingqayizivele! Noma ngabe lowo ngumndeni ofana nowethu, umama ongayedwana, ubaba ongayedwana, ingane ekhuliswa ugogo nomkhulu, izingane zokutholwa… konke kuyasebenza, futhi kubalulekile, futhi sifuna abone ukuthi i-dna ayiwakhi umndeni… uthando luyawenza! Futhi uthando lungaba kuzo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu! Ikakhulukazi njengoba sobabili siphuma kuyo yonke imindeni “yendabuko” nhlangothi zombili, sifuna azi ukuthi kuningi kakhulu egameni elithi UMNDENI kunalokho okubona kubazali bethu, nakwezinye izingane zakwethu ezimpilweni zethu.
Isikole/Isikhathi sokungcebeleka nengane
I-Cara. C.: “Singabahambi abakhulu, nabagibeli be-SUP! Lezi yizintandokazi zethu ezimbili eziphambili! Butttt… kusukela ku-Covid, besidala amaphrojekthi e-STEM amasha ukuze u-Myla ahileleke kuwo, abukele amamuvi ndawonye, futhi abe nama-sundae ngeSonto! Lapho sine-sundae ka-ayisikhilimu njalo ngeSonto!! Angisakwazi ukulinda ukuze ngiqale ngempela ukuqwala izintaba nokugibela i-SUP futhi! Lol”
Sabalalisa Uthando! Siza Umphakathi we-LGTBQ+!
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