U-NEIL HARRIS NODAVID BURTKA: IMINYAKA EYI-17 ENJABULO NDAWONYE
Kungani iziwula ziwela othandweni? Impendulo ihlala ingacacile ngalolu suku luka-April Fools, kodwa siyazi ukuthi kungani u-Neil Patrick Harris no-David Burtka bethandana.
Umbhangqwana onamandla uthathe ku-Instagram ukuhloniphana ngosuku lwesikhumbuzo sosuku lwabo lokuqala eminyakeni engu-17 edlule. Futhi kusukela kokuthunyelwe kwabo okumnandi, kubukeka sengathi uthando lwabo luwubuwula.
“Sikufisela usuku oluhle, David,” kubhala uHarris embhalweni. "Uyizinto eziza kuqala kimi, ugqozi lwami njalo, ubaba wengane yami, kanye nomngane wami omkhulu."
Esithombeni, sibona umbhangqwana ojabulayo ubheka ikhamera esikebheni, ilanga elihle lishona ngemuva. Lo mlingisi oneminyaka engu-47 ubudala uqhubekile nokubhala kwakhe, “Uyahamba nawe eminyakeni eyishumi nesikhombisa edlule? Okuhle kakhulu. Isinqumo. Njalo.
“Siyabonga ngothando, nokuhleka, nempilo. Ubadlula bonke. @dbelicious.”
UBurtka uphinde wabhala ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngoLwesine ehlonipha umyeni wakhe amshada naye ngo-2014.
"@nph saqala ukuthandana eminyakeni engu-17 edlule namuhla!" Umbhali wencwadi yokupheka, 45, waqala amazwibela akhe, ahambisana nesithombe samadoda amabili abambene ngokothando kumagazini i-Out. “WOW — iminyaka eyi-17 engcono kakhulu okwamanje! Unginike impilo ebengiyifisa.”
U-Burtka uqhubekile namazwibela akhe ngokubhala izinto eziningi azithandayo ngo-Harris, ahlanganyela naye amawele aneminyaka engu-10, u-Harper Grace no-Gideon Scott.
“Ngihlale ngimangazwa ikhono lenu lobuzali, indlela enizikhandla ngayo ukuze ninakekele umndeni wethu, ukuthi sisahleka kangakanani, asikakalahlekelwa ‘yikho’ emkhakheni wezothando futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi sisangene othandweni, ” eqhubeka. “Ngiyaxolisa ngeke sikwazi ukuba ndawonye namuhla. Angikwazi ukulinda ukugubha uma usekhaya. Ngikuthanda ngenhliziyo yami yonke."
Wengeze ama-hashtag athi #17yearsandcounting, #love, #modernlove kanye nethi #loveislove.
UHarris noBurtka bavule isifuba ngothando lwabo kumagazini ka-2012 we-Out.
“Kunento ethize ngaye nangobuntu bakhe,” kusho uHarris ngoBurtka, ahlangana naye ngomngane wakhe. “Muhle ngokwejwayelekile, kodwa usengumfana onamandla. Inamandla amakhulu. Uma ngibona abantu abakhangayo ngokulinganayo, bavame ukubonakala bethule futhi benomusa we-Marlboro Man-y, futhi uDavid uphikisana nalokho. Ufana kakhulu noTigger.
“Mina-ke, ngiyazicabangela kakhulu - umuntu ocabangayo, kunomenzi. Ngivame ukukala izinketho ngaphambi kokwenza izinqumo, futhi uDavid uphambene nalokho. Siyafana kakhulu futhi siphambene ngendlela emangalisayo. Sihlanganyela ikhabethe lezingubo. Sinosayizi wezicathulo ezifanayo, ubukhulu bomzimba, ubude, nesisindo. Sobabili singamaGemini. Sobabili siyawuthanda umqondo womndeni - hhayi umndeni wenuzi, kodwa umndeni womphakathi. Nokho, sihluke ngendlela emangalisayo endleleni esicubungula ngayo ulwazi.”
U-Burtka uphinde wabelane ngezinkumbulo zedethi yabo yokuqala ndawonye, ethi isihloko esibaluleke kakhulu savela ngosuku lwe-No. 1 futhi sakha ubuhlobo babo kuze kube phakade.
“Ngisho nangalolo suku lokuqala, sakhuluma ngezingane,” esho. “Ukube ubengazifuni izingane, angicabangi ukuthi ngabe sindawonye. Ngangihlale ngicabanga ukuthi umkhaya uyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngenzani, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngiwumpheki noma umlingisi noma umdansi, ukuba ubaba yilokho engikwenza kangcono kakhulu.”
“Angifuni abantu bacabange ukuthi singabashadikazi abaphelele,” kwengeza uBurtka kamuva. “Akukho lutho olungenasici. Ubudlelwano bungumsebenzi futhi buyashintsha. Futhi uhamba nezinguquko. Izikhathi ezinhle kakhulu kunezikhathi ezimbi, kodwa azihlali zizinhle ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kufanele unqobe lezo zinkinga futhi uqhubeke. Sineresiphi enhle kakhulu yobudlelwano obumangalisayo, kodwa asifuni ukuba abafana bamaphosta bobudlelwano bezitabane. Asizami ukuzenza sengathi siphelele. Sizama nje - ngendlela enhle, eyakhayo, nenothando - ukuphila izimpilo zethu."
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