USarah noCindy - Uthando lwaseKolishi
Isiqalo sendaba
Bahlangane neminyaka yabo ephakeme yasekolishi ngobuhlanya babo, emhlanganweni owawuseChapel Hill, NC. Bobabili babekhona bodwa futhi bedinga ukuhlala eduze nothile, noSarah wakhangwa ngokushesha kuSindi.
Yayintsha ngokuphelele. USindi wenza uSarah wakujabulela ukuba eduze kwakhe. Wahlekisa uSara ngokukhona nje. USindi wayengumuntu wokuqala uSarah ahlangana naye kanjalo.
Ukuvezwa kokuqala
USarah: “Wayenezinwele ezi-blonde ezi-bleach nama-vibes e-florida skater, kanye nesitikha sika-Harry Potter kukhompuyutha yakhe ephathekayo. Ngahlala eduze kwakhe emhlanganweni futhi angizange ngiyeke ukuhlala eduze kwakhe. Ngaqhamuka nazo zonke izaba zokuba naye. Wayehlakaniphile, ehlekisa, enakekela futhi ngangazi nje ukuthi sizoba abangani abakhulu.”
Cindy: “Damn, muhle!”
Qala ukuphola
Baqala ukuthandana ngokusemthethweni cishe izinyanga eziyisi-6 ngemuva kokuhlangana. Akekho noyedwa kubo “owayephumile” emindenini yabo, ngakho ukuqaphela ukuthi bayathandana kwahambisana nokubona ukuthi kwakuzodingeka batshele abangani nomndeni wabo.
Izinyathelo zokuqala
Okokuqala "Ngiyakuthanda". USindi wakusho kuqala ngobuchwepheshe, kodwa uSarah wakusho khona lapho! Bebehlezi phansi endlini yokugezela kunomcimbi wobuhlanya kuvele kuchitheke yonke into.
Aqale ngokuqabula. UCindy noSarah beza nazo zonke izaba zokubonana, futhi ukuqabulana kwabo kokuqala kwenzeka ngobusuku obubodwa behleli nje. Babehlezi esofeni likaSarah, bexoxa nje, kwangenzeka. USarah wathola isidingo esikhulu sokuqabula uCindy, ngakho wakwenza. Futhi akazange ame.
Ubunzima bokubona njengombhangqwana ongqingili
Baqale bakhungatheka, kodwa baye basekela ngendlela emangalisayo. Imindeni yabo yomibili ithandana kakhulu. Ziyamangalisa zonke! Baphila ngaphansi kwemizuzu eyi-10 kuwo wonke amasethi ama-3 wabazali futhi bababona njalo. Kuyamangaza nje ukuthi bonke babanga njengezithandani ngokushesha.
Umkhuba oyinqaba komunye nomunye
UHLU! UCindy ungumenzi wohlu oyinhloko, futhi unezinhlu eziningi ekhanda lakhe, ephepheni nasefonini yakhe nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Isiphakamiso
UCindy ucele u-Sarah umshado ngempelasonto yosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa ngo-2018. Babekanise ezintabeni futhi uCindy wayelokhu etshela uSarah ukuthi udinga ukusebenzisa indlu yokugezela! Ngakho kusobala ukuthi uSara wahamba naye 
USindi wakwenza lokhu kabili ngaphambi kokuthi ekugcineni athi, “Kulungile. Uyahamba. Wena. Hlala. Lapha."
Ngakho uSara wahlala! Ngemva kwemizuzu embalwa, abuyele etendeni uSindi ehlebeza, “shesha baby woza ubheke! Kunomndeni wezinyamazane ngaphandle!”
USarah wasukuma waphuma etendeni egijima eyobona inyamazane, kwavele kwakhanya izibani, waqaphela ukuthi kwenzakalani. Amalambu aqala ukukhanyisa, amholela endleleni encane. Izinyathelo ezimbalwa ekulandeleni izibani, indawo yokugcina iyawakhanyisa. Kuwuphawu (ukuthi uSindi wayecashe ngandlela thize emotweni yabo ababehamba ngayo baya ekamu) enamalambu ezintambo, abhala amagama athi, “Marry me?”
Wathi engakaqedi ukufunda uSarah, waphenduka wabona uSindi eguqe phansi. USarah wavele wagajwa injabulo nenjabulo. Ngemva kokuthi uCindy ehlongoze, wanikeza uSarah ihembe elibhalwe ukuthi “enGAYged” futhi baba nokuphumula okuhle ohambweni lwabo.
Ngemva kwesonto, kwase kuyithuba likaSarah! USarah wagcina eqhamuke necebo lokucela umshado kuSindi. USindi kwadingeka asebenze ngalowo Mgqibelo ekuseni, ngakho uSarah wambona edutshulwa. USarah uphrinte inqwaba izithombe bawahlanganise baphume baqonde epaki uSindi angakaze aye kulo. U-Sarah wangena endleleni futhi wabophela intambo yesithombe phakathi kwezihlahla ezimbili. Wabe eselinda. Futhi walinda. USindi bekumele aphume ngo-12, kodwa ekugcineni wafika ngabo-1.
USarah wahlangana naye ngaphambili ukuze amhambise lapho ayeyimise khona. Kwathi lapho beya kuyo, abantu baqala ukusho izinto ezinjengokuthi, "oh yizithombe zakho lezo?" “Halala!” “Awu nibahle kanjani nobabili!” “Bheka abantu abasezithombeni!”
Bahleke baqonde endaweni yesicelo sikaSarah, uSarah waguqa ngedolo elilodwa washo ukuthi uyamthanda uSindi kanti umndeni ufunza amadada emva kwabo. Yayingaphelele, kodwa yayiphelele.
Wedding
Kwakuyinganekwane! Bashada ngoSepthemba 19, 2020, okwaba usuku lokuzalwa lukaSarah! Bashadele e-B&B kanokusho e-Pleasant Garden, eNyakatho ne-Carolina ebizwa ngokuthi i-Walnut Lane. Yayikhelwe emahlathini phakathi nendawo, futhi ibukeka njengento ephuma encwadini yezindaba. Bafanele bahlale e- indawo kusukela ngoLwesihlanu-ngeSonto.
NgoLwesihlanu, balungisa yonke into! Imindeni yabo yomibili yeza ukuzosiza futhi empeleni kwakumnandi kakhulu! NgoMgqibelo, bachitha ubusuku bebodwa endaweni yomhlangano. Bakhetha ukungabi namadili omakoti, ngakho bazilungiselela bodwa. Bathatha isikhathi sabo futhi kwakuzolile futhi kuhle.
Ngemva kokuba sebezilungisile, benza izithombe zabo zomakoti endaweni yonke. Bazizwa bedumile ngabathwebuli bezithombe babo abangu-2 nendawo enhle. Ngemva kokuthatha ezinye zezithombe ezinhle kakhulu, umndeni wabo waqala ukufika. Babone wonke umuntu engena kodwa akekho owayebabona.
Kuthe uma kushaya isikhathi balungela ukuphuma.
Babambane ngezandla bekhuphuka bekhuphuka. Bahlangana nomngane wabo omkhulu ngaphambili, futhi wabanikeza umcimbi omuhle kakhulu ababengawucela. Kwakusho konke kubo ukuthi enze umshado wabo.
Bafunda izifungo zabo emaphepheni amancane ababewabhale ekuseni ngalolo suku bedla ipizza. Umcimbi ubuphelele.
Baphindela emuva endleleni nabathandekayo babo befutha amagwebu futhi bekhala nezinsimbi zezinganekwane.
Ngemva komcimbi, badansa ubusuku bonke nabangani babo nomndeni ohlwini lwadlalwayo udadewabo ka-Sarah oneminyaka engu-16 ubudala egijima. Kwakuyikho konke ababekade befuna, kwase kuba okunye.
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