OKUFANELE UBHALE EKHADI LOMSHADO LE-LGBTQ?
Umenyiwe ku- Umshado we-LGBTQ futhi namanje awazi ukuthi yini ukubhala ekhadini lomshado? Sizosiza ekutholeni impendulo. Bheka amathiphu ethu futhi mhlawumbe ungakhetha amagama angcono kakhulu wecala lakho.
izilokotho
“Sicela ungasitsheli ukuthi sibukeka kahle, sibambisene, sihloselwe ukusebenzelana futhi/noma senzelwe omunye nomunye,” kusho abekho abashadikazi abake baba khona. Ngamanye amazwi, batshele ukuthi bahle kangakanani!
Izibonelo:
- “Bafo abahle njengani nifanele omunye nomunye!”
- “Greg, ngenkathi uJoey ekwethula kimi okokuqala, ngacabanga ukuthi nobabili niyafanelana. Futhi manje kuvela ukuthi ngangiqinisile! Ngijabule ngani nobabili.”
- "Ngiyethemba umshado wenu muhle njengani nobabili."
- “Ngithanda ukubona abesifazane ababili bemangalisa njengoba nigcina nindawonye. Siyakuhalalisela.”
- "Siyakuhalalisela ngokuba yiPrince Charming komunye nomunye."
- “Mx. futhi Mx. unobuhle obunjalo ring kuyo!” (Qaphela: I-Mx. yisihloko esingathathi hlangothi ngobulili ongasisebenzisa kuso indawo kaMnu noma Nkk.)
- “Abantu ababili abamangalisayo. Umbhangqwana owodwa omuhle. Halala!”
- “Nansi indoda nomngane womshado! Siyakuthanda ukubona indlela enijabulisana ngayo.”
- “Uthando eniluthole nindawonye lwenziwa lwahlala. Sibungaza nawe njengoba uqala uhambo lwakho njengabalingani bakho bempilo yonke.”
Ithiphu yokubhala: Uma ungaqiniseki ngezabizwana zabamukeli bakho, khumbula ukuthi ukusayina ikhadi ngokuvamile akusho ukuthi “yena,” “yena” noma “bona,” kodwa “wena,” okungakhethi bulili futhi okusebenzayo. kithi sonke.
Ngakho-ke, ngisho noma oyedwa noma bobabili abamukeli bakho bekhomba njengabangahlanganisi ubulili, usengabhala, "Sikujabulele!" noma “Ngijabule kakhulu ngokuthi nitholene” noma ngisho nokuthi “Angikwazi ukulinda ukuze nijabulele nonke!”
Uma ufuna ukugcina ukukhetha kwezinye izilimi kungathathi hlangothi ngobulili, cabanga ukusebenzisa okukodwa noma ngaphezulu kwalokhu:
- "Mx." esikhundleni sokuthi “Mnu. noma “Nkk.
- “Umlingani,” “umlingani” noma “omunye obalulekile” esikhundleni sokuthi “umyeni” noma “unkosikazi”
- “Osaziwayo” noma “umshadikazi” esikhundleni sokuthi “umakoti” noma “umkhwenyana”
Siyakuhalalisela kanye Nezifiso
Ngezinye izikhathi ufuna nje ukugcina izinto zimfushane futhi zijabule futhi zimnandi—futhi lokho kuhle kakhulu.
Izibonelo:
- “Halala kanye nezifiso ezinhle, Madoda!”
- “Sihalalisela umakoti nomshanelo ngosuku lwenu olukhulu!” (Qaphela: “Umshanelo” uyinhlanganisela ethi “umakoti” + “umkhwenyana” ekhethwa abanye abashadikazi be-LGBTQ [imvamisa abesifazane] abakhethayo. usuku lomshado.)
- “Ngijabule kakhulu ngani, Cody noLevi!”
- “Nakhu kumakoti!
- “Amadoda amabili athandanayo, uhambo olulodwa oluhle oluphambi kwakho…Sikuhalalisela ngokufudumele ngomshado wakho.”
- “Halala, Anne kanye noMichelle! Bengingeke ngikwazi ukujabula ngaphezu kwenu nobabili.”
- “Lapha senizoba 'amaxhegu ashadile'! Ngijabule ngawe!”
- “Ozakwethu othandweni…empilweni…njalo. Halala!”
- “Siyakuhalalisela! Nizoba abalingani abahle komunye nomunye.”
- “Lokhu kufuna amathawula Abo Nawabo! Siyakuhalalisela, nina nobabili!” (Qaphela: Ukusebenzisa okuthi “Okwabo Nokwabo” esikhundleni sokuthi “Okwakhe Nokwakhe” kusebenzela umbhangqwana okhomba kokubili njengokungahlanganisi ubulili futhi basebenzise izabizwana “bona/babo” esikhundleni sokuthi “yena” noma “yena” bona ngokwabo. .)
Ithiphu yokubhala: Uma uqaphele ukuthi amagama obulili namabizo yiwo wonke enza amanye alawa ma-LGBTQ acacise, uqinisile. Kungokufanayo nangezibonelo zemiyalezo engathathi hlangothi ngamabomu. Futhi kungenxa yokuthi—okuncane noma okuqondile—ukufudumala nenjabulo kuyafana ngempela.
Ukuziqhenya Nokusekela
Ukuveza ukuziqhenya, ukwanga umbhangqwana ngamazwi okusekela, ukugubha ilungelo elizuzwe kanzima lokushada-noma iyiphi yalezi zindlela ingaba indlela enhle yomshado ofudumele noma umlayezo womshado wombhangqwana we-LGBTQ.
Izibonelo:
- “Ngiyaziqhenya nani nobabili ekugubheni umshado wenu.”
- “Siyakuthanda futhi siyakweseka, futhi siyaziqhenya ngani.”
- “Ngikhalela wena izinyembezi eziningi zokuziqhenya nezenjabulo!”
- “Ugcwele ukuziqhenya ngombhangqwana owuyena ojabulayo, ojabulisayo, onothando, owenzelwe omunye nomunye.”
- “Ngiyalwazi uhambo lwenu nobabili nize nifike lapha. Angisakwazi ukulinda ukubona ukuthi uyaphi namuhla.”
- “Unothando. Futhi usitholile. Sinawe yonke indlela.”
- “Uthando lwakho luyakhuthaza. Uyisibonelo esihle salokho okwenzekayo lapho abantu ababili okuhloswe ukuba babe khona benza lokho okudingekayo ukuze babe ndawonye.”
- “Nasezweni elihlanyayo, uthando luyayithola indlela. Ngijabule kakhulu kinina nobabili.”
Ithiphu yokubhala: Umlayezo wokuziqhenya awudingeki. Noma ngabe okubhalayo kugxile othandweni, enjabulweni nasezifisweni, usazozwakalisa ukweseka abashadikazi. Amakhadi anamandla anjalo.
Humor
Uma usondelene nengxenye eyodwa noma zombili zababhangqwana, futhi wazi ukuthi bangajabulela isifiso esihlekisayo noma esilula, zizwe ukhululekile ukubenza bahleke ngalokho okubhalayo.
Izibonelo:
- “I-double garter [isixha sezimbali]! Ibhonasi!”
- “Uma kukhona ubulungisa, kuzovela uthingo olukhulu esibhakabhakeni ngosuku lwakho lomshado!”
- “Izindlovukazi zihlale ziyisandla esihle. Ngingene kulo mjaho!”
- “Sithemba ukuthi wubudlelwane bobulili obufanayo kunabo bonke abake baba khona!”
- “Wawumuhle njengabesifazane abangashadile. Kodwa ngiyajabula ukuthi uyifake indandatho, ngoba ningcono nakakhulu ndawonye!”
- “Sibheke ngabomvu uhlu lwadlalwayo lomshado olungcono kakhulu. Ngizolungisa umnyakazo wami.”
- “Kwangathi usuku lwakho lomshado lungajabulisa ngendlela emangalisayo, lungena endabeni YAKHE.”
- “Usunesikhathi eside ubalulekile. Futhi manje senibaluleke nakakhulu komunye nomunye…uma lokho kungenzeka!”
- "Nina nobabili nenza umqondo omuhle kakhulu kuneminye imibhangqwana eminingi kulo mndeni."
Ithiphu yokubhala: Amahlaya alondolozwa kangcono kulabo obazi kahle. Ngakho, lapho ungabaza, ungadlali. Gcina izifiso zakho zifudumele futhi zisuka enhliziyweni esikhundleni salokho.
KuMndeni
Uma ubhalela ilungu lomndeni elisanda kushada noma elizoshada, kuhle ukufaka umlayezo wakho obhaliwe ngenothi elingeziwe lemfudumalo nokwamukela. Phela lowo ozoshada naye usezoba umndeni naye!
Izibonelo:
- “Umndeni wethu ukhula ngomkhwenyana oyedwa…kanye nothando olukhulu. Ngeke ngikujabulele lokho!”
- “Ijabule kakhulu indodakazi yethu ngokuthola owesifazane ophelele engahlanganyela naye ukuphila kwayo.”
- “Angikaze ngilindele ukuthi ngizothola umfowethu omusha opholile kunabo bonke ngibonga umfowethu omdala u-doofus. Izimanga azipheli!”
- “Siyakwamukela emndenini! Uyinto engcono kakhulu engenzeka kuleli qembu kwazise kwazi bani ukuthi nini.”
- Ukubona nobabili nijabule ndawonye kwenza wonke umndeni ujabule kakhulu.
- “Besazi ukuthi kuzodinga umuntu okhethekile ukuze akulungele, futhi umtholile. Yebo!”
- “Bengingeke ngikhethele indodakazi yami umaqondana. Uyamjabulisa kakhulu, futhi lokho kusho konke kimi.”
- “Ungabe usabheka isikwati. Sonke lapha siyakuthokozela, sikweseka futhi siyakwamukela emndenini.”
Ithiphu yokubhala: Ezinye zezibonelo zemilayezo engenhla ziqondiswe kakhulu kumuntu oyedwa kumbhangqwana, futhi lokho kunengqondo. Ungase ufune ukusho izinto ezihlukile elungeni lakho lomndeni lamanje kanye nelungu lakho lomndeni ozoba maduze. Ungakwazi ukukhuluma ngamunye ngamunye ekhadini elifanayo. Noma ungathumela ikhadi elengeziwe kweyodwa noma womabili.
Ukuvala Okufudumele
Ukuvalwa okufudumele ngaphambi kwesiginesha yakho kuwukusonga okuphelele komlayezo wakho womshado noma wokuthembisana. Nakhu okunye ukuvala okuvamile, kodwa zizwe ukhululekile ukuqhamuka ne-sign-off yakho ehlukile uma lokho kuyisitayela sakho.
Izibonelo:
- ngokufudumele,
- Ozithobayo,
- Cheers!
- Izilokotho ezinhle!
- Konke ukuphila kukungcono kakhulu,
- Halala!
- Siyakuhalalisela kanye nezilokotho ezinhle,
- Ukuhalalisela okufudumele,
- Siyakuhalalisela ngokusuka enhliziyweni,
- Ngijabule!
- Izibusiso,
- Love,
- Ngothando,
- Ngikuthanda kakhulu,
- Thanda njalo,
shiya impendulo