UNGAQINISEKILE: UNGAKWEHLISA KANJANI UKUCINDEZELA UKUHLELA
Siyazi ukuthi sicindezela kangakanani isikhathi sokuhlela ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala oluyinhloko lombhangqwana wenu futhi ningakhathazeki ukuthi siyazi ukuthi singasiza kanjani. Kulesi sihloko uzothola amathiphu ukuthi unganciphisa kanjani ukucindezeleka kokuhlela umshado.
1. Hlala Uhlelekile
Isitayela sokuhlela sawo wonke umuntu sihlukile, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthola okukusebenzelayo. Ungasebenzisa amathuluzi omshado abandakanya i-Equally Wed's LGBTQ+, uhlu lwezinto zokwenziwa, isipredishithi, ikhalenda ye-Google, ifolda ye-accordion, noma uthenge nomhleli wokuhlela umshado.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini oyinqumayo, ukugcina ithrekhi yokuthi yimiphi imisebenzi okudingeka yenziwe ngaluphi usuku kungaba yinto edambisa ingcindezi enkulu. Kungasiza ukukubona kubhaliwe ukuze imisebenzi ingaqhubi ekhanda lakho usuku lonke. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ayikho into eyanelisa ukwedlula ukweqa okuthile kulolo hlu.
2. Cela Usizo
Wena nophathina wakho akumele nenze lokhu ninodwa. Uma konke kuzwakala njengokuningi kakhulu, finyelela kubangani, umndeni kanye Abathengisi ukubona ukuthi ubani ongabelana nomunye womthwalo wokuhlela.
Uma kusabelomali, cabanga ukuqasha umhleli womshado noma umxhumanisi wosuku. Bangaba ushintsho olukhulu lomdlalo.
3. Qasha Abathengisi Abahlanganisiwe
Qiniseka ukuthi abathengisi okhetha ukusebenza nabo bahlanganisa i-LGBTQ+. (Sesha abathengisi bomshado be-LGBTQ+ abaseduze nawe.) Ngokufanelekile, kufanele futhi babe nolwazi lokusebenza nabashadile be-LGBTQ+. Kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kokumane uzimisele ukusebenza nawe kanye nokuba nomdlandla, ukufundisa nokuba nolwazi. Ukuhlola abathengisi kusukela ekuqaleni kuzoqinisekisa ukuthi ngeke ubhekane nokungazi noma ukungahloniphi nganoma isiphi isikhathi phakathi nohambo lwakho lokuhlela umshado.
4. Yiba Nezimo
Wena nomlingani wakho ningase ningavumelani kukho konke mayelana nomshado. Kubalulekile ukuthi uzimisele ukugoba umbono wakho ukuze uhlangane nowabo.
Impela, kunezici ezithile zomshado ezingabalulekile kuwena. Yenza uhlu lwezinto eziza kuqala kuwe futhi ucele umlingani wakho enze okufanayo. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungaba nombono wezindawo lapho kungase kubaluleke kakhulu ukunikeza indlela umlingani wakho akufunayo, futhi angakwenzela okufanayo.
5. Chitha Isikhathi Sokungahleli Nomlingani Wakho
Kungaba lula ukugoqa ekuhleleni umshado uze ukhohlwe isizathu esiphelele sokuthi ushadelwe ekuqaleni indawo: Uyathanda ukuchitha isikhathi nomlingani wakho. Zama ukubeka eceleni isikhathi isonto ngalinye lapho nichitha isikhathi ndawonye ungakhulumi ngomshado. Lokhu kuzokukhumbuza ukuthi kungani ukwenza kwasekuqaleni futhi kuzokusiza ubone ukuthi okubaluleke kakhulu ekugcineni ukuthi nobabili nigcina nishadile.
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