ASIBAVIMBE: IMIKHOMBI YOMSHADO KUFANELE UHLALE KUDE
Uma siphakamisa amaqembu, ungaqiniseka ukuthi laba bantu bangochwepheshe. Kodwa ngeshwa akubona bonke abathengisi abangaqinisekisa umphumela ophelele, noma umphumela nje. Sicela uqaphele futhi ufunde lesi sihloko.
UNGATHOLA KANJANI UKUTHI UDENGI WAKHO WOMSHADO UTHEMBEKILE
Kuthatha isikhathi ukukhetha abathengisi abalungile nabathembekile ukuze balungele ukuncika futhi bathembele kuzo zonke izinhlelo zakho zomshado kubo. Ukuze uqiniseke, zama ukufunda okwengeziwe ngomthengisi wakho ngaphambi kokuthengiselana, nazi ezinye izindlela zokukwenza.
UNGAQINISEKILE: UNGAKWEHLISA KANJANI UKUCINDEZELA UKUHLELA
Siyazi ukuthi sicindezela kangakanani isikhathi sokuhlela ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala oluyinhloko lombhangqwana wenu futhi ningakhathazeki ukuthi siyazi ukuthi singasiza kanjani. Kulesi sihloko uzothola amathiphu ukuthi unganciphisa kanjani ukucindezeleka kokuhlela umshado.
UNGAWUSEKA KANJANI UMPHAKATHI WE-LGBTQ EMCIMBINI WAMI WOMSHADO
Usuku lomshado wakho luyeza, siyazi ukuthi uzilungiselele ngokuphelele kodwa kuhlale kuyindawo yokuwenza ube ngcono nakakhulu. Uma ku-oyu kubalulekile ukukhombisa ingxenye yakho ekuziqhenyeni futhi ufuna ukusekela umphakathi emcimbini wakho womshado, lapha sinezeluleko ezinhle kuwe.
UNGALOKOTHI UBUZE ABATHANDI BE-LGBTQ ABABANDAYO NGALOKHU
Uma uthola izindaba ezinhle kubangani bakho zokuthi sebethembisene umshado manje, siyaqiniseka ukuthi ujabulile ngabo futhi ufuna ukwazi. Cishe banemibuzo eminingi evela ezindaweni zonke, ngakho qiniseka ukuthi awengezi amazwana noma imibuzo okungenzeka ukuthi ayinazwe.
UNGABA KANJANI ISIVAKASHI ESIPHELELE EMSHADWENI WE-LGBTQ
Uma uhlela ukuya emshadweni wangempela we-LGBTQ, futhi unokungabaza ngamagama noma imithetho kulolu hlobo lwemicimbi, lesi sihloko singakusiza ukuba ube yisivakashi esiphelele emshadweni wangempela we-LGBTQ.
QAPHELA: UNGALULUNGA KANJANI USUKU LAKHO LOMSHADO
Usuku lwakho olukhethekile luyeza futhi luhle uma usuvele ulumisile usuku lwakho lomshado, lubekwe ekhalendeni lakho. Kodwa uma namanje ungazi ukuthi yiluphi usuku oluzoba olungcono kakhulu kulo mcimbi okhethekile, sikunikeza ukuthi unake eminye imininingwane ezokusiza ukuthi uyibone. Asibone!
IMITHETHO YOMSHADO WENDODA OFUNA UYAZI
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ushada noma cha eduze nasekhaya, ukuqonda izimiso zokuziphatha zomshado kungaba yinto ekhohlisayo. Ubani okhokhela ini? Zingaki izihambeli okufanele uzimeme? Imibuzo yokuhlonipha ngezinye izikhathi ayipheli, futhi uma ungeza indawo ekude enamasiko nemikhuba yamasiko okungenzeka ihluke, imithetho ingashintsha ngokuphelele. Kodwa indlela yokuziphatha yomshado wendawo akudingekile ukuba idide - okudingekayo nje ukucwaninga okwengeziwe nokuhlela ngaphambi kokuthi uhambe ngosuku olukhulu.
IFASHENI YOMSHADO: THOLA EZISELULEKO EZIBALULEKILE
Uma kukhulunywa ngemishado ye-LGBTQ, isibhakabhaka kuphela esiwumkhawulo wemfashini. Yizo zombili izindaba ezinhle kanye nezindaba ezimbi. Ngokukhetha okuningi, kungaba nzima ukunquma kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungubani, ukuthi ukhomba kanjani, noma ukuthi uvamise ukukugqoka ini. Izingubo ezimbili? Ama-tux amabili? Isudi eyodwa kanye neshubhu eyodwa? Ingubo eyodwa nesudi eyodwa? Noma mhlawumbe nje uhambe super abayitoho? Noma uthole ukulinganisa okuphambene? Uyawuthola umqondo.
NJENGOMSEBENZI WEWASHI: AMASU ABALULEKILE OKUHLELA OMSHADO WAKHO WE-LGBTQ
Uma usuvele uhlela umcimbi wakho womshado cishe kufanele unake nalezi zinto. Nawa amanye amathiphu okuhlela ngawe wokwenza umcimbi wakho ngendlela othanda ngayo.