Kule mibhangqwana emine eyashada ngaphambi kwesinqumo seNkantolo Ephakeme, ukugunyazwa ngokomthetho kwakuyisipho somshado esikhethekile.

Ukugubha iminyaka yokuqala yokugunyazwa kwe umshado wobulili obufanayo, sibuze imibhangqwana yethu emine yomshado wangempela, nayo esanda kugubha unyaka wayo wokuqala, mayelana nokuthi kwakuzizwa kanjani ukuzwa isinqumo seNkantolo Ephakeme Yase-US ngo-June 26, 2015.

Kelli & Nichole

Ngemva nje kwezinyanga ezimbili umshado wabo wakudala waseTexas, uKelli (kwesokunxele) noNichole bakhihla isililo ngesikhathi kuphuma lezi zindaba. "Unyaka wokuqala ugcwele umuzwa wokulondeka kakhulu wazi ukuthi unomuntu ozohlala naye impilo yakho yonke," kusho lo mbhangqwana. Ngemva kokusula izinyembezi zenjabulo, u-Nichole wengeza ngokuthi “u-Kelli akakwazanga ukufika ku-DMV ngokushesha ngokwanele ukuze ashintshe isibongo sakhe elayisensini yakhe!”

U-Bart & Ozzie

UBart (kwesokunxele) no-Ozzie, abashada cishe unyaka ngaphambi kwesinqumo, bakhumbula ukusabela kwabo kokuqala: “Sekuyisikhathi!” U-Ozzie uthi. “Ukuzizwa ulingana futhi unikezwe ilungelo lokuba nomuntu esimthandayo ngokusemthethweni akukholakali. Le yinto esingeke siyithathe kalula.” Umbhangqwana unikeza iseluleko esisodwa kubo bonke abashadayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bathambekele ekuthini ubulili: “Umshado uyilungelo elimangalisayo. Kwazise futhi ukwazisane.”

U-Anna & Kristin

Ngemva nje komshado wabo wasentwasahlobo kanye neholidi langasemuva e-Italy, u-Anna (kwesokunxele) noKristin bezwa izindaba “ezashintsha ngempela ukuphila kwethu,” kusho uKristin. “Sikholelwa ukuthi kuzokwenzeka ekuphileni kwethu, kodwa samangala futhi sajabula ukuthi kwenzeke ngokushesha kangaka!” Ngokuphathelene nokuphila komshado? “Asizizwa sihlukile kunangaphambili, ngaphandle kokuthi sikhokhise izintela ndawonye!” UKristin uthi.

UNathan & Robert

Nakuba uNathan (kwesokudla) noRobert sebejwayele ukubizana ngokuthi “myeni,” umbhangqwana usamangazwa ubuqiniso besinqumo seNkantolo. “Siyajabula ngokuthi izingane zethu nezizukulwane ezizayo azisoze zalazi izwe lapho imishado yabantu bobulili obufanayo ingekho,” kusho uRobert. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umbhangqwana wabelana ngezindaba ezijabulisayo. “Siyajabula ukusho ukuthi siphakathi nohlelo lokutholwa ukuze sandise umndeni wethu.”