UYINI UMEHLUKO? IZINDLELA ZOKUHLELA UMSHADO WE-LGBTQ
Uthando lunqoba njalo, futhi umshado umayelana nalokho. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi akulula kangako uma kufika isikhathi sokuba abathandana bobulili obufanayo bahlele umcimbi wabo. Lapha sinezindlela zokuhlela Umshado we-LGBTQ zingahluka.
Okokuqala, kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi umshado wakho uzoba semthethweni
Kube nezinzuzo eziningi emhlabeni wonke mayelana ukulingana emshadweni, kodwa kusenezindawo ezithile ezingeke zinikeze imibhangqwana yobulili obufanayo ilayisense yomshado, kuhlanganise ne-Australia lapho abantu bobulili obufanayo 'bangashada' kuphela ngomkhosi wokuzibophezela. Ngenhlanhla, ayanda amazwe aqala ukwenza umthetho ohambisana nezimo zokwamukela umphakathi ezikhona, ngakho-ke ungathola inqwaba yezindawo ezinhle zokuthi “Ngiyayenza.”
Ungakwazi ukulahla isiko eceleni ... uma uthanda
Kukhona izindawo nezindawo zamasiko ezizungezile umshado wobulili obufanayo, kodwa ngomcimbi womshado wobulili obufanayo akukho okulindelekile (kahle, ngaphandle kwabantu ababili abathi 'Ngiyayenza'). Kunalokho, kumayelana nokudala amasiko akho ukuze uqale impilo yomshado ngenhlanganisela ephelele yakudala nokusha. Ufuna ukwenyukela endleleni ngaphandle kokuphelezelwa? Kwenze. Ufuna ukuphonsa uthayi kasilika esikhundleni se-garter? Ikholi yakho ngokuphelele. Ingabe ufuna ukwabelana ngephathi yomshado kunokuba ube nezintombi ezihlukene nabakhwenyana? Umqondo omuhle. Khumbula nje: umshado wakho, ngakho zizwe ukhululekile ukuwufuna ngendlela yakho ekhethekile.
Ngokudabukisayo, ukucwasa kungaba yinkinga
Uma kukhulunywa ngendawo yakho, izimbali, ikhekhe, izingubo zokugqoka nanoma yini enye ehlobene nomshado, iningi abathengisi bomshado zithandeka ngokweqiniso, futhi ziyaqonda ukuthi uthando luwuthando. Kodwa, eqinisweni, awukwazi ukuziba ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi nakuba kungekho emthethweni ukwenza kanjalo - ngamalungelo akho abekwe emthethweni - abanye abathengisi bemishado bangase bangabi naso isimo sengqondo sokwamukela kakhulu ukusebenza ngomshado we-LGBT. Kuyihlazo, kodwa khumbula, ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi lokhu kunqikaza kungase kuvele ngenxa yokuntula isipiliyoni sokuhlinzeka ngomshado wezitabane, ngakho-ke ungase uthole isiqondiso esincane yilokho isimo esikudingayo.
Imfashini yakho yothando ingahamba ngendlela exakile
Ama-tux amabili? Izingubo ezimbili? Okubili kokunye? Umbuzo wokuthi yini ozoyigqoka emshadweni wakho wobulili obufanayo ngomunye ozodinga ukucabangisisa ngawo - ngoba nje ayikho 'imithetho' enjalo. Futhi kujabulisa kangakanani lokho? Phela, nge-carte blanche ukuze ubukeke futhi uzizwe ngendlela oyifunayo ngayo, isibhakabhaka siwumkhawulo, kungaba i-goth, i-glam, i-grunge noma enye into ehlukile futhi ngokungangabazeki kuwe.
Uhlu lwezihambeli lungakhohlisa kancane ukuluhlanganisa
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungakanani noma ithoni yomshado wakho, ukuhlanganisa uhlu lwezivakashi kungaba inselele. Kodwa izizathu zingahluka kakhulu ku-LGBTcouples eqondile. Ngokwesibonelo, umakoti nomkhwenyana bangase bacabange ukuthi bangafanelana kanjani nawo wonke umuntu abamfunayo. Umbhangqwana we-LGBT, kodwa, ngeshwa, ungase futhi ugxile ekutheni ubani ozothi 'yebo' esimemweni, ukhumbula ukuthi umphakathi uhlanganisa imibono ebanzi kakhulu mayelana nendaba yokushada kwezitabane. Noma kunjalo, ungathola isibindi ngeqiniso lokuthi empilweni yakho usuku lomshado uzobe uzungezwe kuphela abantu abangafiseli lutho inyunyana yenu kodwa okuhle kakhulu ... inqobo nje uma nisaphila nobabili!
Amaqembu angawakho ukuthi uwenze ngezifiso
Yini engaba mnandi ukwedlula i-bachelorette noma iphathi yesikhukhukazi kumakoti? Amaphathi amabili e-bachelorette noma izinkukhu zomakoti ababili. Noma ubusuku obuhlanganisiwe buck for abakhwenyana ababili. Noma into ehluke ngokuphelele. Mhlawumbe umkhwenyana angathanda kakhulu ukuba nosuku lokutotoswa kunokuba alale ebusuku? Noma mhlawumbe omakoti banabangane abaningi abafanayo abangancamela ukuba nesidlo sasemini esihlangene kunemikhosi ehlukene. Njenganoma yini ehlobene nomshado - hhayi nje kwabashadile bobulili obufanayo - konke kumayelana nokubheka izinketho, ucabangela ukuthi ungathanda ukuyigubha kanjani imitjhado yakho ezayo nomndeni nabangane (futhi ngokunokwenzeka nama-cocktails), bese usuka lapho.
Uqinisekisa ukuthi izihambeli zakho ze-LGBT zizokhululeka?
Noma ngabe umshado walapho uya khona noma useduze nje uzofuna ukuchitha isikhathi esincane uqinisekisa ukuthi Izindawo- nezindawo ze-honeymoon - zonke zinobungani bangempela be-LGBT - hhayi nje kulokho abangakwenza, kodwa kulokho abazokwenza ukuze bakhe umuzwa wangempela wokwamukela nokufakwa. Indlela enhle yokwenza lokhu ukuxoxa nabaphathi, abasebenzi kanye nabangase bathengise, futhi ubheke nobufakazi babo, ukuze uthole imvelaphi yabo emishadweni yobulili obufanayo kanye nenjabulo ababa nayo ekusizeni ukudala izinsuku zamaphupho. Lokhu kuzosiza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ukhetha izindawo ezifanelekile nezingcweti hhayi wena kuphela kodwa nezihambeli zakho ze-LGBT ukuze wonke umuntu akhululeke futhi ajabulele usuku ngokusekela. umkhathi.
Ungakwazi ukuhlanganisa izihlalo zomcimbi
Emcimbini wakudala wamaKristu, kuyisiko ukuba umndeni kamakoti uhlale kwesokunxele bese umkhwenyana kwesokudla. Kodwa uma unomakoti noma abakhwenyana ababili, lowo mbono othi 'owakhe' kanye 'nowakhe' ungase udideke kancane. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhlela umshado wezitabane, indlela elula kodwa ehlakaniphile yokuzungeza lokhu iwukuba nezinhlangothi ezabiwe ngamagama akho noma, njengoba kwenza imibhangqwana eminingi yesimanje, vele usebenzele isihloko esinjengalesi: “Namuhla, imindeni emibili iba munye, , khetha isihlalo hhayi uhlangothi.”
Izindima zobulili zingadinga ukuchazwa kabusha
Umshado wesintu wobulili obuqondile unenqwaba yezindima noma izikhathi ezichazwa ngokwesiko ngobulili. Ngokwesibonelo, umkhwenyana angase alinde umakoti wakhe e-altare ukuze ahambe, indoda engcono kakhulu ingase ilindeleke ukuba ithwale izindandatho, a photographer ingase imise umakoti nomkhwenyana ngendlela ethile, kungase kube ne-garter toss ne-bouquet toss, noma umkhwenyana angase abheke ukunikeza inkulumo egameni lakhe nomkakhe omusha. Ngakho-ke ngekhefu lesiko elinganikezwa umshado we-LGBT, akusizi ngalutho ukuthi abathengisi bakho, i-MC kanye nabanye abathintekayo bangase bamukele ukuxhumana okucacile nokungaphambi kwesikhathi mayelana nokuthi ucabanga ukuthi usuku lwakho olukhulu lusebenza kanjani, ikakhulukazi njengoba kuvumela okokufaka okuthile kochwepheshe. Ngokwesibonelo, emshadweni wobulili obuqondile the photographer bangase bagxilise isikhathi sabo esiningi sangaphambi komshado kumakoti futhi sibe sincane kumkhwenyana, kodwa komakoti ababili bangase baphakamise ukusebenzisa i-snapper yesibili ukwenza bobabili abesifazane ubulungisa obulinganayo.
Ukwenza ibhajethi kungase kwehluke
Zonke izithandani kufanele namathela kubhajethi lapho uhlela umshado (noma okungenani uzame), kodwa kumbhangqwana ongqingili, kungase kuhlangane ngokuhlukile kunokwehlukana kwezindleko zendabuko. Ngokwesibonelo, esikhundleni a Ingubo yomshado kanye ne-tuxedo eqashiwe, umshado wezitabane ungase ube nabakhwenyana ababili abafuna amasudi omklami ahambisanayo kodwa angafanani. Noma mhlawumbe omakoti ababili bobabili baphupha ngokufika emcimbini nge-limousine. Futhi mhlawumbe alikho nhlobo ikhekhe lomkhwenyana. Futhi, njenganoma yini ehlobene nesabelomali somshado, kumayelana nokuhlala phansi kusukela ekuqaleni, ukusetha isabelomali, uchaze umbono wakho ngokwezinto ezibalulekile bese ubheka ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani kwenzeke.
Kodwa-ke, ekupheleni kosuku, lapho ubeka eceleni lo mehluko, yonke imishado yobulili obuqondile neye-LGBT yabelana ngento ebaluleke kunazo zonke - imizwa eyisisekelo yabantu ababili abahlangana ndawonye ukuze bathembise uthando olungapheli. Kuyisithembiso sokuthi kukho konke bazobe sebefulathelana. Futhi lokho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungubani, kuyinto enhle.
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