LGBTQ+ KUSHO UKUTHINI LESI SIFUSHANE?
I-LGBTQ yigama elisetshenziswa kakhulu emphakathini; mhlawumbe ngoba isebenziseka kalula! Ungase futhi uzwe amagama athi “Queer Community” noma “Rainbow Community” asetshenziswa ukuchaza abantu be-LGBTQ2+. Lokhu kokuqala kanye namagama ahlukahlukene ahlala eguquguquka ngakho-ke ungazami ukukhumbula uhlu. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuhlonipha nokusebenzisa imigomo ethandwa ngabantu
UBAPHATHA KANJANI OMAMA ABA-2 EMSHADWENI WAKHO WAMADODA
Uma ube nenhlanhla yokuba nomama ababili abajabule, abathembisene umshado abakweseka wena nengoduso yakho njengoba uhlela umshado wezitabane, siyakuhalalisela! Kodwa, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuhlela umshado ngokusekelwa abazali ngokomzwelo nangokwezimali, kungase kube nzima uma kukhona omama ababili bomakoti. Ngokwesiko, i-MOB ingowesifazane wesibili obaluleke kakhulu wehora emshadweni, onesethi yakhe yemikhuba nesikhathi esigqame emshadweni wobulili obuhlukile. Emibhangqwaneni engama-queer enomakoti ababili, kungaba umsebenzi onzima werope ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi womabili ama-MOB azizwa egujwa futhi ebalulekile ngesikhathi sokuhlelwa komshado wesifazane kanye nangosuku olukhulu.
LAPHA PHEZULU KWABADLI BETHU BOMSHADO ABANGAMA-LGBTQ
Uma uhlela umcimbi wakho womshado, ngokuqinisekile ufuna ukwazi ukuthi ubani ozoba umhlabeleli ngosuku lwakho lomshado. Kungakho kulesi sihloko sikunikeza ukuthi uthole ithimba elingcono kakhulu labahlinzeki bomshado be-LGBTQ lomcimbi wakho.
IMITHETHO EPHAMBILI YOKUBHALA IZIFUNGO ZAKHO ZOMSHADO WE-LGBTQ EZIKHETHEKILE
Izifungo zomshado zendabuko zingaba - kufanele sikusho kanjani - ukungafani? Inqubo yokubhala izifungo zomshado wezitabane ingaba inselele njengoba ungase udinge ukuhlola izifanekiso ezihlukahlukene ukuze uthole izibonelo ezithile ezisebenzela umshado wakho we-LGBT. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, njenge-queer noma umbhangqwana ohamba phambili, unenkululeko eningi yokwenza izifungo zomshado ezimele ubuwena nobudlelwano bakho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okuningi ngesiko. Eqinisweni, iningi labantu bobulili obufanayo likhetha ukubhala izifungo zalo zomshado uma liqhathaniswa nengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yabantu bobulili obuhlukile.
IZIBALO ZEMILANDO YE-LGBTQ OKUMELE UYAZI NGAZO, INGXENYE 3
Kusukela kulabo obaziyo kuya kulabo ongabazi, laba ngabantu abangabazi izindaba zabo nemizabalazo yabo elolonge isiko le-LGBTQ nomphakathi njengoba siwazi namuhla.
HAYI MINA, YIBA LIHLE KANJANI: IZINDAWO ZOMSHADO ZOBUNGANI be-LGBTQ
Ukuhlela umcimbi wakho womshado bese uzama okusemandleni akho ukwenza yonke into iphelele? Lesi sihloko singakusiza ukuthi uthole indawo yomshado enobungani ye-LGBTQ yomshado wakho.
IMIBUZO YOMSHADO KA-LGBTQ OMSHADO KAKHULU: SIZOYIPHENDULA!
Uma ungakaze uye emshadweni wobulili obufanayo, sinezindaba ezingase zibe zimbi: Azihlukile kangako emishadweni eqondile. Noma kunjalo, imishado phakathi kwabantu be-LGBTQ iseyivelakancane futhi, kungenzeka ukuthi, ungaba nemibuzo evuthayo mayelana nokuthi yini ongayilindela kowokuqala.
IZIBALO ZEMILANDO YE-LGBTQ OKUMELE UYAZI NGAZO, INGXENYE 2
Kusukela kulabo obaziyo kuya kulabo ongabazi, laba ngabantu abangabazi izindaba zabo nemizabalazo yabo elolonge isiko le-LGBTQ nomphakathi njengoba siwazi namuhla.
SIZOYIQASHISA: IZINKAMPANI ZOKUQENTSHA ZOBUNGANE NE-LGBTQ EZIMANGA KAKHULU
Siyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe ukuthi ulungiselele umcimbi ophelele womshado. Ungakhathazeki, siyazi ukuthi singakusiza kanjani. Izinkampani zethu eziqashisayo ezinobungani ze-LGBTQ zilapha kuwe!