Umphakathi wakho Womshado we-LGBTQ+

Uma ube nenhlanhla yokuba nomama ababili abajabule, abathembisene umshado abakweseka wena nengoduso yakho njengoba uhlela umshado wezitabane, siyakuhalalisela! Kodwa, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi kungcono ukuhlela umshado ngokusekelwa abazali ngokomzwelo nangokwezimali, kungase kube nzima uma kukhona omama ababili bomakoti. Ngokwesiko, i-MOB ingowesifazane wesibili obaluleke kakhulu wehora emshadweni, onesethi yakhe yemikhuba nesikhathi esigqame emshadweni wobulili obuhlukile. Emibhangqwaneni engama-queer enomakoti ababili, kungaba umsebenzi onzima werope ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi womabili ama-MOB azizwa egujwa futhi ebalulekile ngesikhathi sokuhlelwa komshado wesifazane kanye nangosuku olukhulu.

Izifungo zomshado zendabuko zingaba - kufanele sikusho kanjani - ukungafani? Inqubo yokubhala izifungo zomshado wezitabane ingaba inselele njengoba ungase udinge ukuhlola izifanekiso ezihlukahlukene ukuze uthole izibonelo ezithile ezisebenzela umshado wakho we-LGBT. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, njenge-queer noma umbhangqwana ohamba phambili, unenkululeko eningi yokwenza izifungo zomshado ezimele ubuwena nobudlelwano bakho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka okuningi ngesiko. Eqinisweni, iningi labantu bobulili obufanayo likhetha ukubhala izifungo zalo zomshado uma liqhathaniswa nengxenye eyodwa kwezintathu yabantu bobulili obuhlukile.