Makolo Achihindu Anaponya Buku Lachilamulo ndi Kuponyera Mwana Wawo Ukwati Waukwati Wamagologolo Akazi Amodzi

Chikondi ndi kuvomereza ndizo maziko enieni a mwambo (ndi ukwati wochititsa chidwi kwambiri!).

ndi Maggie Seaver

Abambo a Rishi Agarwal a Vijay ndi amayi ake a Sushma mowolowa manja adapereka ndalama zothandizira ukwati wawo wapamwamba wa ku India ku Oakville, Canada. Chikondwererocho chinaphatikizapo miyambo yonse yamwambo ndi zojambula zokongola za Mhindu wamba ukwati—kupatulapo chimodzi, tsatanetsatane wokongola kwambiri: Rishi anakwatira mwamuna, ndipo kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sikumanyansidwa ndi chikhalidwe cha ku India, koma kumakhalabe kosaloledwa ndi chilango ku India.

Chifukwa chake, mutha kulingalira momwe Rishi adatuluka mu 2004 zidadabwitsa Vijay ndi Sushma, omwe adasamuka kuchokera ku India m'ma 70s ndipo akhala akusunga banja lokhazikika lachihindu kwa Rishi ndi abale ake.

“Inali nthawi yovuta kwa ine. [Ine ndi banja langa] tinali kupezeka pa maukwati pafupifupi 15 mpaka 20 pachaka,” adatero Rishi Pukuta.in za mmene moyo unalili asanamasulire banja lake. “Ndinasangalala kwambiri ndi anzanga apabanja langa. Koma zinandikhudzanso kwambiri, maganizo akuti sindidzakhala ndi zimenezi—kukwatiwa ndi munthu amene ndimamukonda n’kumagawana naye.” Ngakhale zokhumudwitsa, tikulonjeza kuti pali mathero osangalatsa, chifukwa ziyembekezo zotsika za Rishi za chikondi ndi chisangalalo zidathetsedwa.

Makolo ake atadabwa komanso mantha, Rishi anali ndi nkhawa kuti amusiya. Koma, m’malo mwake, Vijay anamutsimikizira kuti, “Kumeneku kwakhala kwanu kuyambira kalekale. Musaganize mwanjira ina.” Chofunika koposa, sanaganizirepo za kuchitira Rishi mosiyana ndi ana awo ena—anafuna kumuona akukwatiwa ndi kukalamba ndi munthu amene amam’konda. (Chonde, perekani matishu.)

Lowani, Daniel Langdon, amene Rishi anakumana mu 2011. Atatha kugwa m'chikondi ndi Rishi akufuna, ndi Agarwals anali pa ntchito: "Ife tinali taganiza kale ... sipadzakhala kusiyana pakati pa ukwati wa mwana wathu wamkulu ... ndi ukwati wa mwana wanga wamng'ono, ” adatero Vijay. "Tinachita miyambo yonse yachihindu - mehndi, sangeet, ukwati, shebang lonse." 

Ngakhale kuti sikunali kuyenda bwino nthawi zonse—ansembe asanu ndi aŵiri Achihindu anakana pempho la Vijay loti akwatire banjali asanapeze munthu woti akwatirane—tsiku laukwati la Rishi ndi Daniel pomalizira pake linafika ndipo linadzala ndi chikondi chochuluka, mitundu yowala ndi miyambo yokongola kuposa Rishi. akanakhoza kuyembekezera.

“Pali nthano zambiri komanso malingaliro olakwika mdera lathu. Uthenga wanga ndi wosavuta. Ngati mutenga nthawi kuti mumvetsetse nkhaniyi ndikusonkhanitsa chidziwitso, si ana okha omwe angasangalale, inuyo mudzakhala osangalala, "akutero Vijay ponena za kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso chisangalalo cha mwana wake wamwamuna (ndi aliyense). Bravo, Bambo ndi Akazi Agarwal—ukwati wabwino kwambiri wokhala ndi akwati aŵiri osangalala!

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