Uthando oluvela kwi-Tinder, i-Lesbian Engagement
Yonke into yokuswayipha ibalulekile!
UJessica kunye noGracie badibana njengezibini ezininzi ze-queer, kwi-intanethi. Ngokukhawuleza uGracie waqonda ukuba uyinto ekhethekileyo. Yayiyeyesibini iprofayile kaTinder ayibonayo. Akacingi ukuba wakhe waswayipha ngokukhawuleza. Xa bedibana, uGracie wakhathazeka malunga nokuba makabhale ntoni kuJess. Kwavela ukuba, uJess wayevakalelwa ngendlela efanayo!
Umhla wokuQala kunye nokuBoniwa kokuQala
Umhla wokuqala wawuseBrewery eBellingham, kwaye uGracie wavuya kakhulu ukubona uJessy emhle ngakumbi emntwini. Ekuqaleni, uGracie wayecinga ukuba uJess uneentloni kakhulu! Wayethule kakhulu, kwaye uGracie ngokunyaniseka wayecinga ukuba usenokuba ngoku ungaphakathi kuye. Kwavela ukuba, wayesoyika kakhulu. Ngenene uyahlekisa kwaye ubomi balo lonke iqela! Ayikho imini edlula uJess angamhleki uGracie ade alile.
UJess waxola kukubona ukuba uGracie ehambelana neprofayile yakhe. UJess wayekhathazwa kwasekuqaleni, kwaye wayebuthanda ubuntu bukaGracie obuphumayo kunye nobuchule bokumenza ancume.
Amanyathelo okuqala!
Baqala ukuthandana ngokunzulu kakhulu, ngokukhawuleza okukhulu. UGracie uqinisekile ukuba wenzela uJess ikopi yesitshixo sendlu yakhe emva kweveki yokuqala, kwaye wahlala naye emva kwenyanga.
Okokuqala kiss. Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, uJess weza kubukela iShining kunye noGracie. Wayezama ukumfaka kwiimuvi ezoyikisayo, kwaye uGracie wayezama ukumkholisa. Kwathatha uGracie de iikhredithi ekugqibeleni zakha ukuzithemba ukumphuza esofeni.
Okokuqala - ndiyakuthanda! Emva kohambo olumnandi oluya eVancouver, uBC Jess kunye noGracie bafika ekhaya ukuza kukhupha izinto. Babegonene esofeni kwaye uGracie wayengasakwazi ukuzibamba! Waba nethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba aphinde athethe kuye.
Ubunzima bokuqonda njengesibini esithandanayo esinabazali okanye abahlobo
UGracie akazange aphume aye kubahlobo bakhe nakusapho lwakhe de baqala ukuthandana. Ekubeni babezimisele, ngokukhawuleza, uGracie uyazi ukuba oku kothusa wonke umntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo kwakukho ixesha apho uGracie akazange azive exhaswa ngokupheleleyo lusapho lwakhe. Ngethamsanqa, usapho lukaJess lwalubamkela kwaye bebathanda bobabini kwasekuqaleni, kwaye bebesoloko bebaphatha njengesibini esisebenzayo.
Emva kweminyaka emi-2 kunye nobudlelwane, banothando kunye nenkxaso uninzi lwabahlobo babo kunye nosapho. Kuhlala kunzima kumalungu athile osapho, kodwa ngokubona ulonwabo lwabo kunye nokuzibophelela komnye nomnye, banokufunda ukuyamkela njengokuba beyiyo.
Umkhwa ongaqhelekanga omnye komnye
Ukungaqhelekanga kukaJessica. Uhlala egxadazela ngayo nantoni na anokuyifumana! Ifikelele kwinqanaba apho uGracie kufuneka akhangele izinto anokuthi uJess aziphathe kakubi ngazo, ngoko ke uyayeka ukwaphula izinto ezingacwangciswanga kufutshane nendlu yabo.
Ubumnqa bukaGracie. Uhlala ecoca indlu yabo de abambe izitya zikaJess/abeke izinto asebenza ngazo engekagqibi nokugqiba. UJess kufuneka ahlale ebhengeza. “Ndiya kuhlamba, kodwa andikagqibi ngala glass yejusi, ndicela ungayibeki”.
Usuku oluyingozi, kodwa iSindululo esiPheleleyo
UGracie wayeceba ukwenza isicelo kuJessica kangangeenyanga ezi-6. Wayefuna ukulinda umzuzu ogqibeleleyo. Emva kokucwangcisa okuninzi, waqesha umfoti waza waqalisa ukusebenza ekufumaneni a Indawo. Kwiiveki ezi-2 ngaphambi kwesindululo, indawo yokuqala yawa kwaye wayebambekile engxamele ukufumana entsha. Wahlala kwiNtaba yeSpokane, njengoko iyindawo entle ebukekayo enombono omangalisayo. Ngentsasa yesindululo, uSpokane wabethwa ngawo wonke umsi ovela kwimililo yasendle yoNxweme oluseNtshona. I-AQI yayingama-490, kwaye kwakujongwa njengengozi ukuba ngaphandle ixesha elide. Washiyeka ekrazula iiyure ezi-5 de isindululo simiselwe ukuba senzeke. Ngethamsanqa, umfoti wam wayenomhlobo onestudiyo awayekulungele ukusivumela ukuba sisisebenzise! Ndichithe imini yam ndibaleka ndifumana amakhandlela (angenamlilo), iintyatyambo kunye nokutya, kwaye ndizama ukucinga kwakhona ukuba isiphakamiso siza kuhamba njani.
Wabuza uJess ukuba uyafuna na ukuphuma ayokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa, kwaye wamcela ukuba anxibe kakuhle (ngokucacileyo yiloo nto eyenze uGracie ahambe).
Baqhuba besiya kwindawo efihlakeleyo, yaye njengoko babehamba, kwakukho indlela yamakhandlela eya kwipikiniki awayesebenze nomyili ukuze ayimise. UJess wayesazi ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni ngoko nangoko.
UGracie wamxelela ukuba ubaluleke kangakanani kuye, kwaye yonke into ebomini bakhe iyavakala ngayo. UGracie waguqa ngedolo elinye wanikezela ngqinela uyilungiselele yena.
WATHI EWE!! Kwaye emva koko, athathe isipaji sakhe akhuphe umsesane ebewugcinela uGracie! Wothuka kakhulu ukuba naye uza kufumana umsesane, kwaye uvuyo ebusweni bakhe lwalubonakala.
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