Learn local traditions and cultures
“Don’t include rituals or traditions or other elements that might be offensive to the culture of the country where you get married,” says Cadini.
For instance, tipping your vendors in other countries can be offensive. A friend of Cadini’s married a Japanese man in his home country, and she invited her American friends to the wedding. “During the wedding reception, the guests tipped the bartenders as a sign of appreciation for a job well done. It turned out, tipping in Japan is considered an insult. Her guests obviously didn’t know, but the bartenders got offended and complained with the banquet captain who, in turn, went to complain with the bride and groom,” says Cadini.
To avoid any cultural miscommunication and to maintain good destination wedding etiquette, Cadini suggests asking a local wedding planner about your location’s specific customs or traditions. If you find out that tipping is considered rude, pass that information along to your guests.
Give your guests key information
There are a lot of logistics and details involved with attending a destination wedding, so be sure to give your guests plenty of information as far in advance as possible. Your wedding website is the ideal place to share all of the important information—from the weekend’s schedule to transportation information, emergency contact information, and much more.
Provide chances to mingle
If one of your guests doesn’t know others at the wedding, consider letting he or she bring a plus one. Since many destination weddings can be week-long affairs, give your guests the opportunity to bond with a welcome party and other organized activities, such as sightseeing, sports, boat cruises, or other excursions.
“You want to make sure everyone has a good time and has someone to hang out with,” says Chang.