U-Amanda Ford no-Amanda Whittle
Amanada ama-2, Imiphefumulo emi-2, Izinhliziyo ezi-2 - nothando olulodwa lwababili.
Uthando ku-Tinder lukhona!
U-Amanda Ford no-Amanda Whittle bahlangana e-Tinder eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-5 edlule. U-Amanda W. ungowaseNingizimu Carolina kanti u-Amanda F. uvela eNew York. Bobabili bathuthela eFlorida ngenxa yemisebenzi yabo. Babeqala ngqa ukuthandana nomuntu wesifazane bobabili.
Idethi Yokuqala kanye Nokuvela Kokuqala
Empeleni, bekungelona usuku ekuqaleni, kusukela eqinisweni lokuthi U-Amanda's W. profile uthe ufuna abangani. Futhi kungaba njalo, ngoba usanda kuthuthela eFlorida.
Usuku lwabo lokuqala kwakuwuhambo loFudu eJuno Beach, eFlorida lapho babuka khona ufudu lwasolwandle lubeka amaqanda alo.
Isithombe sokuqala sika-Amanda's Ford esivela eNew York:
“UngowaseNingizimu Carolina mina ngisuka eNew York. Sobabili sathuthela eFlorida ngenxa yemisebenzi yethu. Lapho sihlangana okokuqala wayezinzile futhi ethule kakhulu kunami. Wayebonakala engazimisele kangako ukukhuluma nami noma ukuba sothandweni. Lapho ekhuluma indlela ayekhuluma ngayo yayishubile ngakuthola kunzima ukumqonda.”
U-Amanda Kuhle umbono wokuqala kusuka South Carolina: "Izwi lakhe belicwebezela futhi lingajwayelekile."
Ubunzima bokubona njengombhangqwana ongqingili onabazali noma abangani
Njengoba bekungokokuqala bobabili bethandana nabesifazane kwaba wushintsho olukhulu. Ekuqaleni bobabili abazali babo, ngaphandle kukamama ka-Amanda F., babenenkinga enkulu ngakho. Abangane babo babepholile ngakho kanye namanye amalungu omndeni wabo nawo. Kodwa manje bobabili abazali babo bafika bebonga!
Isiphakamiso Esikabili
U-Amanada W. uthathe u-Amanda F. wabuyela olwandle lapho babenosuku lwabo lokuqala. U-Amanda W. usethe ipikiniki enhle ekushoneni kwelanga, wenza uhlu lwadlalwayo lwazo zonke izingoma ezichaza ubudlelwano babo kuze kube yileso sikhathi. Wahlongoza kuqala kodwa u-Amanada F. wayemthengele indandatho ezinsukwini ezimbili ngaphambi kwalokho futhi wayebhukhe uhambo ngemva kosuku ehlongoza ukuya eBoston lapho amisa khona yonke into ukuze amthembise umshado. U-Amanda F. wamyisa eProvincetown, MA futhi wamcela umshado ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngemva kokuba emcele umshado.
Ukungakhululeki emshadweni
U-Amanda F. akazange ngempela azizwe ekhululekile emshadweni wabo. Abathwebuli bezithombe babenze bazenzela izinto eziningi izithombe kwakungebona ngempela labo. Mhlawumbe kwakuyisipiliyoni sabo sokuqala ukwenza imishado nama-lesbians ngakho babengazi kahle ukuthi bamele kanjani.
Amasiko Omkhaya
Kusukela ngoSepthemba 2-12 baneholide labo elibizwa ngokuthi “izinsuku ezimnyama zaseQuattlebaum.” Lena inja yabo i-Quattlebaum yabaleka eminyakeni emibili edlule ngesikhathi beseholidini futhi ababehlala nayo beyibhekile. Inja ibilahlekile izinsuku eziyishumi. Bandiza besuka eMontana beyomcinga kwaze kwaphela isonto bafaka igazi, izithukuthuku nezinyembezi bemthungatha. Ekugcineni ngosuku lweshumi othile owabona elinye lamapheshana abo wakwazi ukumbamba baphinde bahlangana. Ngalezo zinsuku eziyishumi badela okuthile ukuze bakhumbule isikhathi esinzima abamlahlekele futhi babonga ukuthi ukhona kubo manje.
Imizwa nokulindelwe
Amanda F.:
“Sisanda kuthuthela eNyakatho-mpumalanga sisuka eFlorida ngakho-ke sikujabulele kakhulu ukubeka phansi izimpande. Ngibheke ngabomvu izinkathi zonyaka futhi futhi ngicabanga ukuthi u-Amanda ujabulile ukuzwa iqhwa ekuphileni kwakhe kwansuku zonke. Isikhathi esijabulisa kakhulu, nsuku zonke ngizizwa sengathi ngiphila iphupho ngoba nginokuningi kunalokho ebengingakucabanga.”
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